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    Default Re: Bad Break Up. Stil wants EX Back. HELP!!

    Quote Originally Posted by MrStatham View Post
    It's more than a community it is a brotherhood.
    I KNOW RIGHT?!? There's some seriously great people here. It's nice having other guys who share the same passion and goals. Hope you become a frequent contributor
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    Default Re: Bad Break Up. Stil wants EX Back. HELP!!

    Thanks bro. I hope I can be a valuable part of this great community. Teach me and I will guide others

    But just a small question with regard to yesterday's topic. Can I do an "accidental texting to her or her friend" or do you think it is a bad idea. Maybe it proves I still did not deleted her number so I still hang on to her or would it work like a charm? That's my finall question about my ex.

    I know this is BETA behaviour but after yesterday a lot makes sence to me now. So I only need advice on this one and then I will close the chapter depending on the advice/answer.

    Tnx Bros

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    Default Re: Bad Break Up. Stil wants EX Back. HELP!!

    I have nothing to add but always love to welcome Dutchies to the forums. So welcome, bro

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    Default Re: Bad Break Up. Stil wants EX Back. HELP!!

    Hahaha Virgil it's because you are one yourself. But tnx anyway bro. Hope we can make this World a better place

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    Default Re: Bad Break Up. Stil wants EX Back. HELP!!

    Quote Originally Posted by MrStatham View Post
    But just a small question with regard to yesterday's topic. Can I do an "accidental texting to her or her friend" or do you think it is a bad idea. Maybe it proves I still did not deleted her number so I still hang on to her or would it work like a charm? That's my finall question about my ex.

    I know this is BETA behaviour but after yesterday a lot makes sence to me now. So I only need advice on this one and then I will close the chapter depending on the advice/answer.

    Tnx Bros
    My advice is if you really really want her back, be direct about it. You can't 'accidently' get her back. What will the text do in the long run?? Girls like a guy who knows what he wants. If you want her back, tell her so. If you try and fail at least you tried with all your effort and then CAN completely close that chapter of your life.

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    Default Re: Bad Break Up. Stil wants EX Back. HELP!!

    Tnx WhiteDragon.

    I did not know what to do on this point. Because in my last mail that I had send her I said: "Delete me from your MSN, BBM and phonelist. Like you said it will NEVER be something and it NEVER was. So I bid you farewell." But this was more of a bluff trying to show her I am not needy and stuff. This mail was about a month ago and we split up about 2,5 months.

    And the thing is I dont want to look like a AFC by taking initiative contacting her after I send a pretty harsh email to her. She never responded on it. I don't know how to make a start with this subject. Once I get starting it is not a problem, at least I hope so.

    So what should I say in the text to her?

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    Default Re: Bad Break Up. Stil wants EX Back. HELP!!

    Quote Originally Posted by MrStatham View Post
    Tnx WhiteDragon.

    I did not know what to do on this point. Because in my last mail that I had send her I said: "Delete me from your MSN, BBM and phonelist. Like you said it will NEVER be something and it NEVER was. So I bid you farewell." But this was more of a bluff trying to show her I am not needy and stuff. This mail was about a month ago and we split up about 2,5 months.

    And the thing is I dont want to look like a AFC by taking initiative contacting her after I send a pretty harsh email to her. She never responded on it. I don't know how to make a start with this subject. Once I get starting it is not a problem, at least I hope so.

    So what should I say in the text to her?
    My gut feeling is if she did not say anything back to you after your last mail, your chances are very difficult and like my first post said, you should move on. It's going to be really hard coming back from saying it never was and never will be. I mean what are you going to write 'it always was and now it always will be'?. She won't bite. If you never had sex with her either there's no old primal sexual feelings to try bring up. You could try mine out some old emotional feelings from her (something good you did together that will get her in an emotional state) and get to a good comfortable baseline again...but idk...it sounds like she has moved on and you need to do the same. I think a lot of guys can easily end up doing more damage trying to show they are not needy. Alpha males are not terminator robots, we have feelings so sometimes its better to have no fear in expressing them, than bluffing or hiding them. As long as your not a dribbling clumsy mess its ok to tell a girl exactly how you feel or what you want. But if the eggshell is broken you sometimes can't re-make the egg.

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    Default Re: Bad Break Up. Stil wants EX Back. HELP!!

    I have thought about it. And after thinking I said "fark it. What do I have to lose?" So I texted her how i past by a restaurant where we always used to have diner during our dates and that it made wonder how she is doing now. If she respond I will let know, if not then it's her loss.


    My God I am shaking. Apperently it still gets to me.

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    Default Re: Bad Break Up. Stil wants EX Back. HELP!!

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    It would be perfect for ya...

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    Default Re: Bad Break Up. Stil wants EX Back. HELP!!

    @WhiteDragon. Well like I said I have texted her. But I send a message without my name. The text just said "How I was wondering how she is doing."Nothing that implies I want to get back or still interested in her. If she had deleted my number then she would probably have anwerd back with the question who I am. I know for sure I was not the only BF that has been to this restaurant with her. So the only conclusion I can make is that she still has my number in her phone list and that she saw who the sender was. Anyhow she did not respond so this chapter is defenitly closed for me. I just needed social proof and I found it amung you guys, for that I thank you all.

    @Bill Preston. Hahaha no problem bro. All the help is welcome. If you are the founder who am I to question you :P


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