My gf has been away for 3 wks and will be returning in 10 days. Since she left we have had limited contact. She was not responding to texts, voicemails and rarely calling. 6 months before she was caught flirting with a guy from her home country by her sister and she immediately stopped all communication.
I have found out from her brother that they caught her hanging around this guy there and they actually confronted him because he is a stranger in the small community and a known drug dealer and user.
My gf and I have been together 2 yrs. We just got a house together and were talking about babies and marriage. I have tried not to call her or text. I did well for a couple days and she started calling me and was saying she missed me and loved me etc.
Since she got caught being with this guy (i do not know if they have physically been together or not) she has not contacted me at all. For the 3 weeks that she has been there, she has avoided skype etc.
I have decided not to confront her about it especially while she is there. I don't want her to end it and then say she slept with the guy after we were broken up. If she actually cheats then I don't want to give her that OUT.
I have decided that for the remainder of her trip that I won't contact her unless she contacts me first. I sent her some nice emails (a bit mushy) and have had no response. It seems I got more response by ignoring her.
I am wondering if I should post something on my FB status, or anything that might get a reaction from her. I have not let on that I know a thing. I love this girl A LOT and wish there was something I could do to stop her but I am 5000 miles from her and not able to go there. And I also know that stopping someone from doing it doesn't matter, it is the fact that they want to do it that matters.
Any tips are greatly appreciated.