So my girlfriend broke up with me after 1.5 years because she hooked up with a PUA. I did some reading and found out that he used preselection techinque on her. She told me that this guy can have any girl he wants, and that he needs her as much as she needs him. They went out for about 2 weeks before she broke it off with me. I'm sure he used a lot of Kino and negging. She told me that she still loved me and that she wanted to work it out. Then that night we spoke and she said we were done. I guess she spoke with him again and he covinced her. One of her friends mentioned something about him being a player and that he told her that he wanted to stop to be with her.
She said that we weren't talking as much the last few weeks (duh, she was out with this guy) and that she didn't know that I had a future planned out for us. She did say she wished someone had stopped her from hanging out with this guy and that she wished she knew about our future plans.
It's been about 1.5 months. Talked to her a few times, a few texts. She is still talking to me, although somewhat guarded, cold. She seems happy, she told this friend that they have problems but they listen to each other.
Is there anything I can do to get her back? I haven't really done anything toward getting her back, but I would like to have a chance to discuss everything. It won't be easy with what she had done, but I want a second chance. The long distance was the killer. I can't think about what else to post, let me know if any more information will help.