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    liukang75 is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Be careful what you wish for...

    Be careful what you wish for. I got my ex back after about 3 weeks using the game. Now I'm in a situation where I'm not even sure that I want her back anymore... The only reason I'm even considering sticking around is because of our son. Long story short, she orchestrated a break and than I found out that she had been talking to another guy. My gut tells me that she slept with him within 48 hours of me being out of the house. In the 3 weeks apart I gamed the crap out of her. I should be a freakin actor. It was so hard to be an alpha during that time but I pulled it off flawlessly. She told me that she wasn't in love with me when she decided that we take a "break" and now three and a half weeks later, I've got her eating out of the palm of my hand. I've been using a ton of push and pull, taking every opportunity to create Tension at every twist and turn. If she could be truthful with me, I might consider staying. The more she keeps lying to me, the more I want to make her fall crazy in love and drop her. She has no idea who she's screwin with!

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    liukang75 is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Be careful what you wish for...

    Okay, I guess I was being a little bitter in this post. I got her back so why do I even care about the other guy? I mean, alpha's don't worry about stuff like this right? Why should I care about what happened in the past? I know I could get another girl easy and she is with me now anyways. I would never break her heart on purpose. The break-up served it's purpose. She is in love with me again and that is all that matters...

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    Default Re: Be careful what you wish for...

    jealousy is a normal emotion that all human beings feel and have been feeling for millions of years. You aren't going to be the first one to succum to it either. Jealousy is simply wanting to protect your investment along with some insecurity issues.

    What matters is how you deal with your jealousy. It's not about trying to control your emotions, you will feel them regardless of what you do. The trick is accepting them and coping so that you don't behave in a way that makes you look AFC.

    With that said there seems to be a lot of leftover anger towards your ex. Which is understandable. But if you want to move on you have to do your best to let it go and move on. She is human just like you and is not perfect. You both will continue to make mistakes.

    If she asked for a break or "space" then that is usually a sign that you are putting a lot of pressure on her so you may have to lighten up. If you feel that you haven't really put pressure on her then she has her own personal issues to workout that you may not want to be around for. Hope this helps and good luck.


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