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    Default Re: Sent a closure letter to an ex girlfriend of 4 months - Want her back

    Dude! Slow down lol. Im sorry to laugh because I know how you feel and shit but you need to stop like right fucking now!

    Do what the guys are telling you.

    I been in your shoes and you know what? I got needy and in the end I don't have the girl. This is the way I see it..... Eh herm! Right now you are pretty much what we in the industry like to call SOL. So! Do what the dudes are telling you and if at the end of the day you still not with her anymore then guess what you really didnt loose anything because you never had her... Sort of. It makes sense in my head.

    One thing you will have that I didnt in my younger years is knowledge and your manhood. When I think about this behavior that I myself displayed many times and wondered why the girl would leave me or never came back, I think of the movie Hitch and he runs to the car screaming why, and the dude tells him dude you are doing it right now as in this is why she doesnt want you.

    Bet! Takes this for a spin. Dont say shit to her for say ummmm 2 weeks. I bet you a gigagillion bucks she will in some way shape or form try and connect with you. Dont add her to your facebook. You deleted that shit and if you add her it shows you are being needy and man enough to hold your ground. She will facebook stalk you. Thats a guarantee because facebook is like cocaine/heroin/crack/and weed all rolled up into one for women and they fucking loveeeeeeeeeeeee to facebook stalk their exes for either self validation or other shit. Why you think majority of women specially younger ones have like thousands of friends on fb? So in other words dont add her. She will will look you up. Instead pimp your shit. Update pics, go out. Show you are happy and not faced by this.

    She will reconnect and who knows maybe you will have a chance again bit don be surprised that after you go out there in the field of battle(streets,clubs , whatever) you might find that you are happier and dont need her.

    Your other option is to continue being needy and completely fuck it all up for sure because 99.9% of the time thats the end result. Not question about it.

    Best of luck dude. But please listen to experience and not your heart right now. If that fucker starts acting up like Im sire it is, read Kill Beatrice over and over man. It helps.

    Kilo!

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    Default Re: Sent a closure letter to an ex girlfriend of 4 months - Want her back

    Hi eurotik,

    Don't add her. After 6 weeks meet for coffee and see how things are before adding to fb. That is where she has to see and experience the new you.

    Don't act needy at all. The next 6 weeks is totally about you.

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    Default Re: Sent a closure letter to an ex girlfriend of 4 months - Want her back

    rs5096 I know this may be wrong but I looked at her twitter today and she posted this.

    "I'm so thankful I left when I did because if I didn't, I don't know what you would have done to change me & that's really not acceptable."

    Is this a way of her justifying herself for not being with me?

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    Default Re: Sent a closure letter to an ex girlfriend of 4 months - Want her back

    Nah dude. Check it man send me a private message. I been in your shoes and what I have to say may help.
    To my bros who served with me.
    "When it comes your time to die, be not like those whose hearts are filled with the fear of death, so that when their time comes they weep and pray for a little more time to live their lives over again in a different way. Sing your death song and die like a hero going home.

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    Default Re: Sent a closure letter to an ex girlfriend of 4 months - Want her back

    Hey buddy, sorry to hear of your loss. I know that your in alot of pain but try to take it all head on. You have got to listen to everyone that is giving you advice or your gonna mess things up 10,000 times worse than they are right now. I have done the exact same thing with a girl a few years ago so don't think that I don't understand because I do. There is a forum more geared for moving on that I am suggesting for you. It's called enotalone. There is a very wise man named superdave on there who's words really helped me get through the pain years ago. Just type his name into the search box and read his threads. You won't eat, sleep, or start to heal until you start no contact and let go. Stay away from facebook, twitter, and stop torturing yourself man. Take a look at those things hanging between your legs and remind yourself when you feel down that your a farking man and you don't need any woman to validate how you feel about yourself!!!

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    Default Re: Sent a closure letter to an ex girlfriend of 4 months - Want her back

    I know what you mean. I haven't contacted her in a week since I've sent that message and she keeps posting about me on her twitter.

    Guys, just now she posted

    A man that can properly wear a dress shirt and look classy is so attractive.

    Then right after she posted: Except you.. You're just fckn ugly. Just thinking of you makes me angry.

    then she posted: If only you would do what you did back then, things would be so different & good.

    it's hard to stop looking but why would she be seeing such terrible things about me still. We broke up 1 month ago.

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    Default Re: Sent a closure letter to an ex girlfriend of 4 months - Want her back

    Quote Originally Posted by eurotik View Post
    I know what you mean. I haven't contacted her in a week since I've sent that message and she keeps posting about me on her twitter.

    Guys, just now she posted

    A man that can properly wear a dress shirt and look classy is so attractive.

    Then right after she posted: Except you.. You're just fckn ugly. Just thinking of you makes me angry.

    then she posted: If only you would do what you did back then, things would be so different & good.

    it's hard to stop looking but why would she be seeing such terrible things about me still. We broke up 1 month ago.
    She wants you to chase so that she can shut you down. Stop hurting yourself more by looking at that nonsense. You came here for advice so listen to everyone who is trying to help you! You really want a girl who's gonna talk about you like that?

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    Default Re: Sent a closure letter to an ex girlfriend of 4 months - Want her back

    If a chick said that kinda stuff about me I would shit in a box, gift wrap it with a big bow on it, and leave it at her house with a card from me saying "kick rocks!".

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    Default Re: Sent a closure letter to an ex girlfriend of 4 months - Want her back

    I know i should stop looking at that. But why would she be saying those things? Why does she hate my guts when I haven't spoken to her, is she angry I am not chasing her?

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    Default Re: Sent a closure letter to an ex girlfriend of 4 months - Want her back

    Quote Originally Posted by eurotik View Post
    I know i should stop looking at that. But why would she be saying those things? Why does she hate my guts when I haven't spoken to her, is she angry I am not chasing her?
    Yes, she is trying to hurt you because she is hurting as well. It's extremely immature but I guess my shitting in a box idea was too! Stop looking!!!


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