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    eurotik is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Sent a closure letter to an ex girlfriend of 4 months - Want her back

    WHATS WRONG WITH YOU ROLAND
    She is probably talking to someone else right now, I am missing her, it makes no sense not to call her and just ask her how she is doing.

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    Default Re: Sent a closure letter to an ex girlfriend of 4 months - Want her back

    Look man, I've been throught this before with a girl a couple of years ago. I didn't give her any space during the breakup. I eventually pushed her completely out of my life. I haven't heard from that chick in over four years. If that is what you want then go ahead and call her and tell her how much you miss her. She won't think it's sweet. It's not like what you see in romantic comedies man. Women don't respond to that sort of behavior. Go ahead, see for yourself if you don't believe me or anyone else on here. Just know that she will be gone forever!

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    Default Re: Sent a closure letter to an ex girlfriend of 4 months - Want her back

    Well listen dude, if i dont call her she will be gone forever ANYWAY

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    Default Re: Sent a closure letter to an ex girlfriend of 4 months - Want her back

    It's been over a month since i spoke to her on the phone and 2 weeks since i sent that bloody message.

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    Default Re: Sent a closure letter to an ex girlfriend of 4 months - Want her back

    Over a month? 2 weeks? Dude. Seriously. That is a very short period of time.

    Guess what. She may never call you. -or- You may fix things years from now. It happened to me. The second time around I dropped her and I haven't looked back.

    If you act like an AFC you're going to say goodbye forever though.

    Call her dude. I think you're just gonna have to learn this one IRL. Just remember the information was here to begin with.

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    Default Re: Sent a closure letter to an ex girlfriend of 4 months - Want her back

    Yep, you have to realize that we actually don't really care, we're giving you advice because you asked for it, and we like helping a bro, so we try to tell you what would be best for you, but at the end of the day, I will have the same night of sleep anyway. Whatever we say, it's just for you, you don't want to listen, that's fine too.

    Yep, if you don't call you might not talk to her for a couple of months. But forever is a lot longer than a couple of months.

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    eurotik is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Sent a closure letter to an ex girlfriend of 4 months - Want her back

    No, she will never call me. I have to reconnect with her. What do you mean the second time around?

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    Default Re: Sent a closure letter to an ex girlfriend of 4 months - Want her back

    Dude I had this girl that i dated years ago. She completely dominated my ass. I was the biggest AFC. She complained about the clothes I wore. Me being indecisive. I can't even start with all the bullsh1t. I put up w/ it. I took her out all the time. Spent dumb amounts of money while I was in college at that. I did not have a clue. She wrecked my world.

    We stopped talking eventually. I didn't seek her out. I let her go.

    A few years later I run into her at a local bar while she was with her dad of all people. We shoot the sh1t. I can't remember if we exchanged numbers/hooked up that night. Whatever.

    We started talking again. I wasn't an AFC anymore. I grew up. I choose not to be that guy again. I completely flipped the tables. She was buying me stuff. Wanted a relationship. She even said, "i don't remember the sex being this good". It wasn't cause I was better at it it was because she was now farking an alpha.

    I dropped her.

    I hooked up with her again a few years later for a few months and dropped her again.

    Even now it's easy to act like an AFC with certain girls. It never fails though. If you start living with the right 'mentality' everything in the dating department gets exponentially better.

    It's one thing to read something though another to learn from experience.

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    eurotik is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Sent a closure letter to an ex girlfriend of 4 months - Want her back

    What is keeping me stressed is not the fact that I was needy but the fact that I didn't treat her will throughout the relationship. I constantly tried to control her and change her, because I was insecure. I was jealous and constantly suspicious and I had these ridiculous rules that made no sense and I realize that she felt as if she was losing herself in the relationship. She was being controlled. I hate myself for that and just wish to show her that I want to be a different person, and as cliche as that sounds I really do want to change and have another chance with her doing a full 360 on my views on things and just offering her what she deserves from someone.

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    Default Re: Sent a closure letter to an ex girlfriend of 4 months - Want her back

    Controlling her. Trying to change her. Insecurity. jealousy. Suspicious. That's AFC behavior man. You can keep trying to convince yourself otherwise but that's the truth.

    The 'game' isn't any different. Advice here stays the same.


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