Re: Need help getting ex back ... can/will pay for help.
Ok brother i know where you are at and i know how you are feeling..
the advice from these guys is really some golden principles about the game and relationships and how it works.
Id like to give you my take on it, but i have to be blunt cause thats what you need.
She is getting over you, and she is telling you any bull reasons (which may or may not have a bit of truth) to slowly break this up. First i will say that i think she definitely does have feelings for you, so dont think she doesnt.
Now, you could play the game, wait the three weeks, whatever.. She will not be developing any new feelings of fresh attraction for you anytime soon, in fact the time you ignore her will give her time to distance herself from you, and you dont want that! Your relationship stands on your connection to each other and the times you enjoyed together and the good feelings you give each other. Not the initial game you used to get her
So rather than try to win her again with game, you gotta be honest with her, you need to buy her a super thoughtful (not expensive) gift which means something to the connection you and her share. You need to tell her you love her and dont wanna lose her in writing, but the letter has to be given to her with the gift, IN PERSON.
Then because she will feel so pussy to break your heart, you will be back together and you can play the game of winning her back while you still get to root her every week or so.
When they want to run away from a relationship, and you let them, her main priority is getting you out of her head and when she makes a disconnection and your back texting her its a tough road my friend.
moral of my story, give her your everything tell her your emotions in a letter in person, never talking. she has your everything anyway so you have nothing to lose by telling her.
If this fails, then you know you made the right choice bro and you will know she did not like you enough to not want to break your heart.
Good luck my friend, dont forget there is plenty more fish you'll do fine.
Nothing bad you say will ever be wrong. Nothing good you say will always be right. - quote from me