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    Default Re: Need help getting ex back ... can/will pay for help.

    I just bought relationship rewind, and i read some of it. It seems like it has some good information in it. I also purchased text your ex back. In another week or so when enough time has passed between talking using some of the convo opening ideas between the two ebooks should be good enough to get something going.

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    Default Re: Need help getting ex back ... can/will pay for help.

    the only thing i would say at this point seeing as how you have one itis... is try to close as a number of women to test you attraction to this girl over the course of the 3 weeks of no contact... also if within that three weeks she initates dont make the mistake of being a lost puppy and go running back... other than that bat man seems to have it on lock coming back at you with great advice worth following...

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    Default Re: Need help getting ex back ... can/will pay for help.

    As previously mentioned i purchased the relationship rewind, and text your ex back. The 3 weeks of no contact is coming close and I jotted down a couple ideas for the opening text based off of the two ebooks. An opinions on which text i should send would be really appreciated.

    1. Hey i just saw ted and i was laughing non-stop. I think you'd like it. (obviouslye assuming the movie is any good this weekend)
    2. I was checking out some frozen/wine drink recipes and this one was good, I think you'd like it a lot.
    3. You'll never believe what i just found. One of those gold spiral sparkly things you picked out for the tree. It some how managed to get stuck in the big tree next to my car...now i have them all over my hand.

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    Default Re: Need help getting ex back ... can/will pay for help.

    Does anyone have any input on this?

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    Default Re: Need help getting ex back ... can/will pay for help.

    As BatMan says we are not proffesionals in giving this advice so take it as you will...

    The way I would go about it is say something like:

    "Hey I have been thinking about the break up a little bit the past couple of days. I understand that the break up was for the best and I respect the decision."

    then if she replies I would invite her to the movie as a "friend" of course. Be sure not to say hey will you go to the movie as just a friend. Thats way AFC. Then play it out how batman previously stated. If you have no problem taking her out of the f zone then that is very well going to be your best bet. From there you can spice the relationship back up. Trying to start right back into a relationship from what you explaining will be difficult and wont be able to be done through text. You need to get that face time with her and get it going in person. If you can get her out as a "friend" then you can take it from there. But in your situation I feel that a face to face is crucial for you to get her back.

    Also once your with her remember to show little interest in a serious relationship and just run the pattern. From there you should be golden. If that doesnt work and you cant get the relationship back, then remain friends with her and use her to meet new women.

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    Default Re: Need help getting ex back ... can/will pay for help.

    Thanks for the reply

    I absolutely agree that I need to get her out as a friend. And your suggestion has given me a lot to think about. So you feel its better to actually start with your suggestion and try to transition to a friendly funny convo then start with one of the text i suggested? Its probably just because i'm nervous, but it seems like it will be hard to transition from that text, assuming she replies, to a friendly type conversation. This is actually where I need the most help... in handling the first conversation and not doing something AFC. Having access to someone who can help me reply to her (again assuming she replies) would be a major life line for me.

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    Default Re: Need help getting ex back ... can/will pay for help.

    I've gone through a VERY similar situation. And was successful in getting my ex back. We broke up 6 weeks later.

    If you are serious about getting your ex back, heed this warning. Do not and I repeat DO NOT jump back into the relationship unless you, yourself has changed. Don't try to deceive her or yourself into believing that you have changed but actually attempt it by bettering yourself in every aspect of your life.

    Take this advice from someone who has gone through the pain of breaking up twice from a girl I really cared about.

    Hope all goes well.
    Regards,

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    Default Re: Need help getting ex back ... can/will pay for help.

    Ok brother i know where you are at and i know how you are feeling..

    the advice from these guys is really some golden principles about the game and relationships and how it works.

    Id like to give you my take on it, but i have to be blunt cause thats what you need.

    She is getting over you, and she is telling you any bull reasons (which may or may not have a bit of truth) to slowly break this up. First i will say that i think she definitely does have feelings for you, so dont think she doesnt.

    Now, you could play the game, wait the three weeks, whatever.. She will not be developing any new feelings of fresh attraction for you anytime soon, in fact the time you ignore her will give her time to distance herself from you, and you dont want that! Your relationship stands on your connection to each other and the times you enjoyed together and the good feelings you give each other. Not the initial game you used to get her

    So rather than try to win her again with game, you gotta be honest with her, you need to buy her a super thoughtful (not expensive) gift which means something to the connection you and her share. You need to tell her you love her and dont wanna lose her in writing, but the letter has to be given to her with the gift, IN PERSON.

    Then because she will feel so pussy to break your heart, you will be back together and you can play the game of winning her back while you still get to root her every week or so.

    When they want to run away from a relationship, and you let them, her main priority is getting you out of her head and when she makes a disconnection and your back texting her its a tough road my friend.

    moral of my story, give her your everything tell her your emotions in a letter in person, never talking. she has your everything anyway so you have nothing to lose by telling her.

    If this fails, then you know you made the right choice bro and you will know she did not like you enough to not want to break your heart.

    Good luck my friend, dont forget there is plenty more fish you'll do fine.
    Nothing bad you say will ever be wrong. Nothing good you say will always be right. - quote from me

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    Default Re: Need help getting ex back ... can/will pay for help.

    Thank u for the advice. As for giving her a gift and telling her how I feel that won't work. Without breaking the silence and talking its impossible to see her. She knows how I feel. I don't have I run game.... I know if I can just get back on talking and hangout terms I can turn things around. Right now I'm trying to decide to lead w the text ingested above or one of mine. Tomorrow is the day

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    Default Re: Need help getting ex back ... can/will pay for help.

    You dont ever want to use verbatim anything on here in a situation like this... All of this stuff is canned material and is only an idea of how to start. Its an idea to get your hamster wheel rolling so you can finagle it and modify it however to fit your situation. I cant tell you exactly what to say. I can just give you an idea.

    The key to the text that I had said to say is to show disinterest and understanding. However you feel you can do that best, that should be your plan. No matter what though you absolutely need to get some face to face time with her.

    Shake had some great advice to offer. Heed it wisely.


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