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    Default Re: Need help getting ex back ... can/will pay for help.

    I agree he has good advice. Which I will certainly try to use. I just have to get the face time in order to be able to do it.

    I appreciate the help. I think I'm going to lead tomorrow with a spin of your suggestion about respecting her decision. Then go from there.

    I'll keep this updated.

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    Default Re: Need help getting ex back ... can/will pay for help.

    Well i sent the text and we had a convo. I did my best to keep it short and be the one to end the convo, i have read that a bunch of times to be the one to end the convo, right?

    Any thoughts on how this went? Do i wait a couple days and then try to start another convo if i don't hear from her (pretty confident i won't)


    Me 7/1/2012 7:57 PM:
    Hey, I've been thinking about the break up a little bit the past couple days. I understand that the breakup was for the best and I respect the decision. I hope your having a good holiday weekend.

    Her: 7/1/2012 8:49 PM
    Thanks I hope you are too

    Me: 7/1/2012 9:23 PM
    Yea it was fun. We had a BBQ so everyone got to meet the two new babies.

    Her: 7/1/2012 9:23 PM
    Two?


    Me: 7/1/2012 9:28 PM
    Yea my cousin Tracy and her husband had their baby a couple weeks ago too. And geez my brothers delivery was so crazy u wouldn't even believe

    Her: 7/1/2012 10:22 PM
    Why

    Me: 7/1/2012 10:29 PM
    About 10 min before the baby was born my brother had a seizure in the delivery room. He was taken to the ER. he couldn't really move his arms. The next day they finally did X-rays. Both his shoulders were dislocated and shattered. He was in the hospital 3 days. And now may need screws. It was so hectic to hear "emergency to labor delivery" over the pa system

    Her: 7/1/2012 10:31 PM
    Has he had seizures before?

    Me: 7/1/2012 10:32 PM
    Yea this is his 5th but hasn't had any in 4 years so we were caught off guard.

    Her: 7/1/2012 10:33 PM
    Oh wow that's scary. I'm sorry.

    Me: 7/1/2012 10:37 PM
    It's ok. he's ok now a nurse checks on him at the house everyday. But I got to see first hand just exactly how crazy your job can be when they had him on the neuro floor lol

    Her: 7/1/2012 10:42 PM
    Which hospital

    Me: 7/1/2012 10:44 PM
    It was saint marys. It was a pretty decent hospital... And pretty lucky it happened at a hospital

    Her: 7/1/2012 11:05 PM
    Yeah that's def good

    Me: 7/1/2012 11:20 PM
    I'm gonna finish this episode of nip tuck (you got me hooked) and hit the bed. It was nice chatting with you.

    Her: 7/1/2012 11:26 PM
    You too glad everything is going well

    Me: 7/1/2012 11:36 PM
    Yea same with you.

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    Default Re: Need help getting ex back ... can/will pay for help.

    The conversation went well I would say. It doesnt seem there is a negative vibe there on her end. I would initiate friendly conversation with her after a day or so now that your talking to her again. Try to minimize your time you dont speak to her because she is trying to get over you. With the success of the "Freeze Out" you came plummeting back into her life like a magnet train collission.

    Make a plan to yourself about a friendly date that you are certain she would be willing to do. Mini-golf or something that the "friendly" intentions cant be mistaken. Invite a couple of mutual friends and her. Then take it from there to win her back. Start slow and run the game basically from the beginning. dhv as much as you can. Come back as a new man in her life as someone who basically owns it and she cant possibly survive without you.

    It sound like you are doing well thus far. With enough work and some persistence you can definitely win her back...

    Good Luck,
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    Default Re: Need help getting ex back ... can/will pay for help.

    Thanks for the reply. I took it as a positive that she answered, and some positives that even though she was short, she was asking questions instead of just letting the convo die. I was thinking of sending her a message wednesday. She has like 100+ shoes and when i was at IKea yesterday i saw this really nice shoe cabinet that holds 32 pairs. I figure i can send her the picture of it and tell ehr i think she'd like it...and that should get some convo going. As for inviting her out, do you think its somethign i should do fast, or have a couple convo's first? I'm pretty sure i can get her out to shoot some pool, we both enjoy playing even though we suck.

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    Default Re: Need help getting ex back ... can/will pay for help.

    Dude forget the [woman] and move on. Life is too short. You should never become emotionally invested in any chick. Just think there were chicks before her and there will be chicks after. Watch the movie Swingers and be like Vince Vaughn not a loser like Jon Favereau.
    Last edited by Virgil; 07-10-2012 at 05:47 AM.

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    Default Re: Need help getting ex back ... can/will pay for help.

    Quote Originally Posted by shiznewski View Post
    Thanks for the reply. I took it as a positive that she answered, and some positives that even though she was short, she was asking questions instead of just letting the convo die. I was thinking of sending her a message wednesday. She has like 100+ shoes and when i was at IKea yesterday i saw this really nice shoe cabinet that holds 32 pairs. I figure i can send her the picture of it and tell ehr i think she'd like it...and that should get some convo going. As for inviting her out, do you think its somethign i should do fast, or have a couple convo's first? I'm pretty sure i can get her out to shoot some pool, we both enjoy playing even though we suck.

    The shoe cabinet isnt a bad idea at all. With so many shoes it is definitely something to spice interest in a conversation. Just try to carry it out beyond the shoe cabinet. Try threading multiple conversations into your text.

    And yes get her out as soon as you can. It is dire that you get that face time with her my friend. When it comes to winning an ex back I cant stress enough how important that it. Texting her is keeping you from being nothing but a distant memory. The face to face will be what puts you back to the fore front of her thoughts.

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    Default Re: Need help getting ex back ... can/will pay for help.

    thanks for the reply. I sent the text about 45 min ago. "hey, i was at ikea and saw a shoe storage system. i talked to the woman and she said they make them for under beds that hold 64 pair. I thought you would ilke it since you have an enormous collection lol" and i sent the pic. I'm hopefully i hear back from her. If i don't, what is my course of action? Do i just hold off a couple days and try again?

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    Default Re: Need help getting ex back ... can/will pay for help.

    Well, if you get a reply your set. Then get her out in public with you.

    If you dont get a reply wait a few days and try again. After so long if she completely stops replying she is definitely done and sadly it will be time to move on...

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    Default Re: Need help getting ex back ... can/will pay for help.

    Well I was ignored. It's been 10 hrs with no response so there won't be one. I have to say in pretty shocked because I figured if Ahe answered the other day shed answer now. Kinda of a bummer. But well see what happens this weekend.

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    Default Re: Need help getting ex back ... can/will pay for help.

    Quote Originally Posted by mikey2012 View Post
    Dude forget the biatch and move on. Life is too short. You should never become emotionally invested in any chick. Just think there were chicks before her and there will be chicks after. Watch the movie Swingers and be like Vince Vaughn not a loser like Jon Favereau.
    Very amusing. Have you ever been in love? Scientists did a study and discovered that people going through break-ups have the same type of neural activity as someone going thru drug withdrawals. Go tell a crackhead that they don't need crack! It's pointless my man... Love is a farked up biological trick so that we will pairbond and reproduce. You can't fight nature.


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