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    Default Re: Need help getting ex back ... can/will pay for help.

    Oh yeah, shiznewski--good luck!

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    Default Re: Need help getting ex back ... can/will pay for help.

    Thanks I appreciate it. She ignored me today, so I guess I have to just chill a couple days and reattempt this weekend

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    Default Re: Need help getting ex back ... can/will pay for help.

    Quote Originally Posted by shiznewski View Post
    Thanks I appreciate it. She ignored me today, so I guess I have to just chill a couple days and reattempt this weekend
    Ignore her back then. Don't reward her behavior if she isn't giving you what you need. Only then will she start to really respect you and become subconsciously turned on by you.

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    Default Re: Need help getting ex back ... can/will pay for help.

    bro your games mean nothing to her and your game is just the ripples she knows are coming from the breakup she created..

    she sees you coming 2 miles away and the initial game you had is fizzled you only have her cause you were together as a coule and the longer you string yourself along the harder your punishment will be..

    you need to know what you want, and HAVE IT.. i mean you want her then you make it clear, and when she fires back you will know she likes me enough or not..

    your talking sh1t to her about thinking the break up is for the best and bla bla bla man she knows how you feel im telling you she knows how you feel probably more than you do.. women are like foxes smellin prey you cant hide sh1t

    give it your all and get her back, or let her go and dont text her at all, not 1 word.. delete her number and she WILL crawl back eventually

    another thing man, dont talk all that negative stuff in texts, the only reason that txt marathon went ok is cause you went for the sympathy vote with the biggest turn to negative town ever..

    sorry how this comes across we are all brothers here i mean no disrespect to anyone
    Nothing bad you say will ever be wrong. Nothing good you say will always be right. - quote from me

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    Thanks for the reply. And why i agree with some of your points, i'm not actually sure how my brothers bad situation has anything to do with sympathy for me.

    The punishment of dragging it out is long over. For me, i have usually been able to get over things in a week or two just by going out and having fun with friends. Eventually out of site out of mind. I'm not saying i'm not interested in her, or that i don't want her back. As for the approach of just telling her how i feel, i don't think that will go over well, or at least not this soon. I think she needs some time to just relax, have fun and have no stress especially before her masters program for nursing starts in august.

    no disrespect taken. I have thick skin, but i always would rather have it given to me straight then beat around the bush.

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    Default Re: Need help getting ex back ... can/will pay for help.

    FauxPas here. Hey shiznewski, may I suggest you read some other threads in this very section, from fellow PUA's in training, and in your head, answer the questions being proposed by the guys looking for help. You will see a trend..you will see the guys in your particular situation share a lot of the same issues and problems. My thought is that as you read and come up with suggestions for these guys, you yourself will form answers to your own queries. It sucks to lose someone in your life. I dare say it can be as painful as a death. I don't think we ever get over it, we just learn and shuffle ahead. I hope this post is somewhat helpful to you or maybe someone else. It's difficult to exactly verbalize, but I hope you catch the gist of what I'm trying to say. Good luck, good vibes. Ciao, FauxPas.

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    Default Re: Need help getting ex back ... can/will pay for help.

    How is you're sex life.. perharphs she is not sexually satisfied

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    Default Re: Need help getting ex back ... can/will pay for help.

    Quote Originally Posted by shiznewski View Post
    I'm sure its obviously by the title and the forum section what i need help with. Anyone who feels confident about being able to get conversation started and building the attraction again feel free to tell me how much money you'd be looking for to help.

    Quick summary, can go into more detail if needed: Was seeing a girl for about 10 months. We broke up in Jan because she said there was no sexual chemistry. She talked about how i was the best bf ever etc and still wanted to be friends. After a couple weeks things sorta just went back to normal, hanging out a couple times a week, dinner, movies, Easter with her family blah blah. 2 weeks ago we went a couple days without talking and then got into a little situation, and broke up again with the same stuff. "It just feels like somethings missing". She said she needs time to herself and we need time apart. Haven't talked to her since.

    In general i don't really chase girls (haven't seen like 16) but i am really attracted to her drive and motivation. Its nice being with someone who is always looking to better themselves and move up in the world.

    So i'm looking for help. Most things i've read said wait a month before contact and to use certain types of text to get things started again. I'm basically looking for a coach/mentor to help me out. Like i said, name a price and I'll see if we can work it out.
    I read your story, and my heart truly goes out to you. Honestly, you remind me a lot of myself, and I actually got back together with my ex. I think a lot of what's going on is you're getting odd advice... ex) "Wait a month to make contact." This isn't going to help matters. It's going to actually fade you even more out of the situation.
    Last edited by KristiBell; 08-09-2012 at 07:16 AM.

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    Default Re: Need help getting ex back ... can/will pay for help.

    I know this is a dead thread but I'm hoping op finished his story, and would like to hear about it.


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