I broke up with a girlfriend of about 3 years 5 months ago. It was a serious relationship, we lived together, etc. She broke up with me. I am doing what I can to move on, but I am definitely open to getting back with her.
She is currently seeing someone, and I have not initiated contact with her for months. She began messaging me from work online and we started talking a little about what she is up to, etc. That lead to her talking to be about issues she is having anxiety with and general life advice.
I am reluctant to talk to her because I feel like I am just being used for support while some other dude is spending the night with her. I don't want to make myself available like that. At the same time, when we do talk it has been good and I have heard through her friends that she says she cant talk to the new guy like she does with me.
Should I allow her to make contact with me and talk to her, eventually letting this lead into hanging out again, etc or is it better to let her not enjoy my good advice while she is with this other person?
Thanks a lot!