First post been lurking for awhile just getting an idea of things .Apologies for the long post! I’ll try to keep this short as poss. Well me and my ex of 3 and a half years split up once in Feb due to her feeling “un appreciated” and no spark. I did all the AFC crap, begged etc terrible anyway we got back together for 2 months but I was far too needy and crap because I didn’t want to lose her again. We found out she was moving away in the summer so we both decided to give it a real go but she didn’t put hardly as much effort in as me.
Well anyway in April we split up again and I went straight to no contact well tried no. Accept a few Furk ups I drunk dialled once and we had a few text convos, then straight back to nc. Anyway whenever I seen her out after the breakup she would totally ignore me I just use to say hi and keep walking it’s really not worth being rude other. So two weeks ago I got sick of her stuff round my place (we had been split up about 8 weeks).
So I took it all back and told her that I was ok with the break up now that time has passes and it was the right thing to do, id read that was the top thing to do. She still has me on fb and stuff so sure she checks my wall and stuff. During these months ive got myself some new hobbies and stated smashing the gym whenever I can. Many females have noticed my added muscle and it feels great. During these weeks ive been out loads and started to socialise with women getting phone numbers and such it’s a great feeling.
Anyway the week after it was my birthday, literally midnight on my birthday she texts me “happy birthday J xx”. I didn’t reply until the morning n just went “thank you ” She replied with “was I the first to text you blab la bla” we just had general convo for abit but I said I had to go to celebrate my birthday.
Later on that night she drops me round a card posts in through the door it just said “to Strike12, hope you have an excellent birthday and a great night out, love (insert pet name from holiday that only I call her) a winky face xx”
I just text thanks for the card. She replied n we had abit more convo but is toped replying when I went out on the beer learnt that the hard way! I reply the next day to her question then she replies to me on the Sunday after y Saturday night out asking if I’d had a good night out. I replied later on that day but my friends had put pictures up of girls kissing my cheeks and hugging me on fb. I assume she seen and didn’t reply. So went to no contact. She text me the following Friday i.e. last Friday saying “hi are you in amt ive got summit to drop round” I text saying “ill be in 50 minutes” I was expecting it to be a jacket or summit but nope.
She was away the weekend of my birthday and in the UK we cannot get lucky charms in many shops and I love them. She went to London and when she was there she bought me some I asked her why she bought me them and she said “just for you” I just said “ahh ok thanks “the convo at my hosue lasted 10 minutes or so just general stuff what she’d been up to but we both had work so she had to leave.
She texts me abit while imp out on the Friday night just about the England score and talking about the lucky charms. She even started putting xx on texts I just stayed cool and not too pushy.
I stop texting but reply on the Saturday. No reply. I see her out on the Saturday night and she actually approaches me to say hi n ask how is as I was gobsmacked. Convo was nice and light and she excused herself to dance. I ended up dancing with other women and I heavy heard a thing back since, as I text on the Sunday asking if is he had a good night like she did the week before, yep you guessed it no reply. Is she just trying to head furkk me lol! I tried to show her I have other options not just her by dancing, flirting with other females.
Don’t get me wrong I know if she doesn’t come back I win either way because I get someone better. Don’t worry ive gone back to nc. Just what do you think she’s doing?