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    Rob#taobad ass is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Can anyone shed some light

    alright a very long story short. My girlfriend of a year & a hlaf dumped me in March. i did three weeks of silence andt was going pretty well but then I found out that she was not only in a relationship but she had even been dating him behind my back when we were still together so i went silent again. She texted me all the time asking why i was mad and stuff but i didnt answer...finally three more weeks she had messaged me and i decided to go with Mike's program again also with the ex2 system which i heard was great. Again it went well but then she started posting stuff to make sure i saw about her boyfriend ( i am her only friend on gamil so duh all her statuses are just for me to see). So i deleted her this would be the third time at this point and went silent again then 2 weeks later she messages me again and i decide to proceed just with the ex2 system but again she posted stupid statuses and i saw on her twitter she said her boyfriend was the love of her life..so i sent a farewell letter agreeing telling her how i felt, agreed with the break up, told her i was doing much better, supported her relationship and told her i needed more time before i could talk to her again and i told her not to answer which she respected...yes after all this i still love her..any thoughts? my current plant is just NC until further notice well essentially i plan to move on..even if she does message me this time i wont answer cause evrytime i did it just put me in the spot of being her emotional bitch while she has a bf on the side..Did i make the right decision..is their hope for us...she has been with this guy going on 8 months...

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    Default Re: Can anyone shed some light

    FauxPas here. I don't know you and I don't know her, but the cynic in me say's she might be playing you to make her present boyfriend jealous! I think he'll be signing up here next week! What I'm really saying is be thankful. She never had any respect for you, and she never realized that you were the prize not her. I think if you look back you'll agree the man she knew when you two were together was not the leader, which allowed her to carry on her bad behavior. You have made the choice to be here and improve yourself, congratulations. Please participate and help all of us become better PUA's, and better men. Good luck, and good vibes. Ciao, FauxPas.

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    Default Re: Can anyone shed some light

    I agree with FauxPas. You made the right decision to cut her off completely. She seems to be the type that likes to get a rise out of men. Once you learn these types then they are easy to deal with. Usually they respond to lack of attention and not falling into their frame. Even if you could get her back I don't think it's a good idea. There are plenty of good women out there that would treat you ten times better than her. Just let go of the any feelings that make you feel like you lost and that you have to win her back from another man. She isn't worth it. Keep studying and get your game up my friend. Hope this helps and good luck.

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    Default Re: Can anyone shed some light

    Since you two don't have any kids together I would recommend that you move on and count your blessings. If she does try to come back after her rebound fails--and it will, tell her to kick rocks!!!

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    Rob#taobad ass is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Can anyone shed some light

    lol u know whats funny guys? as soon as i posted this she texted 'hey' smh..thansk for the advice gentlemen

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    Default Re: Can anyone shed some light

    Screw that girl man. That happened to me before and I fell into her trap only to be screwed over again. If she does it once she's more than capable of doing it again. I learned my lesson and the third time my ex came around I asked to record, hooked up with her, and told her services are no longer needed. A bit immature on my part, but it helped me get over it a lot more quickly. She hasn't hit me up since and I couldn't be happier.

    You can go out how I did if you don't get emotionally attached from hooking up or you can just ignore it and move on. You don't want to put yourself through this confusion and game playing again.


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