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    Tylerd211 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Screwed up with new girl.. how do I rebuild the attraction?

    Hi all, I used to be here a lot. I've gained a lot of experience and have been very successful, but a recent situation has me in unfamiliar territory.

    So, to the point. I was in a relationship with Girl A.. and I met girl B on fb. I talked to girl B for 2-3 months on chat building lots of rapport and attraction. I ended up going out with girl B 2 nights in a row and after staying the night with her the 2nd night, without any action, she confessed to me that she really liked me.

    2 days later I broke up with girl A and hung out with the new girl, girl B. We slept together and later that night, I took her home because we both had work in the A.M. Leave it to fb to screw me, girl B had tagged me in a post. (LOL and big mistake, I know). Girl B had no idea about Girl A, and the next morning, girl A began messaging girl B telling the new girl she slept with her bf.

    I made the mistake of apologizing to girl B repeatedly and explaining. After a long day of sorting things out, girl B decided she didnt know what to think and wanted to step back, maybe talk still and just see what happens. Since then, she has not been the same and doesn't seem as into me anymore. So she had to go out of town over the weekend and I told her we shouldnt talk while shes gone, just chill for a minute and if she wants to, hit me up when she gets back but either way, its cool.

    Thats where we stand at this point and she gets back in town today. I am already talking to another girl, girl C and chatting it up with others but my mind is still set on girl B. Ive cleared my head now and decided not to initiate contact until she does but I need help on re-building the attraction and any tips on trying to get it back to where it was are needed.

    1 last note, I know many will say to leave her alone and find others. I am aware of that approach and already doing so but I still want to salvage it if I can. So please spare me that talk. haha Thanks guys.

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    Tylerd211 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Screwed up with new girl.. how do I rebuild the attraction?

    Ok.. thanks to everyone for the help. lol I've decided to go the Freeze Out route.. unless she initiates.. And it's on to the next one.

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    St.Jonny is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Screwed up with new girl.. how do I rebuild the attraction?

    sounds like you've made up your mind as to what you want to do...so id just go with that!

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    Tylerd211 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Screwed up with new girl.. how do I rebuild the attraction?

    Ok, so here's an update. I froze her out, and didnt initiate any contact and she hardly contacted me either yesterday.. when she did I was short and ended the convo 1st and early. I noticed her and her ex having playful comments on each others stuff so I assumed I was doing the right thing by not wasting any more time. I posted a value building status that said "Riding solo.. ladies.. try and keep up.. lol" 1st thing this morning and she contacted me and starts talking my ear off.. not playful tho.. just about her day so far. Not sure which way to go with this.


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