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Thread: looking for your thoughts on this one...

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    Default looking for your thoughts on this one...

    So I have been seeing a girl for about 5-6 weeks. Everything was going great, built it up slowly, bedded her etc and we were getting on really well.

    On Sunday just gone, we went out to watch the football. We were drinking and I drank far too much. Despite this, we met up with a few of her friends and everything was going well. She was telling me how into me she was and that she liked me etc.

    And this is where it all goes blank. I was drinking pitchers of beer and was totally farked. At some point in the last 30 minutes of the game I must have done or said something that totally pissed her off and made her fall out with me majorly. But I literally cant remember what it was. I do remember that I couldn't even speak properly I was so drunk and that she decided to leave with her friends and I followed her trying to talk to her (not attractive behavior).

    The next day (yesterday) I sent her a cute text apologizing and she has been txting me back since, all be it not as quickly as usual. I asked if I could go see her yesterday but she said she was "busy". I have asked again today and she said shes not sure what she is doing later so we'll see.

    I have kept the texting cute and fun other than that, trying to get away from the negative behavior displayed the other night. She is clearly annoyed at me still but im thinking that I have a chance to get back in there, seeing as she is still talking to me.

    Also, should I actually ask what it is I did that annoyed her? or just kinda...wing it lol.

    Any thoughts/advice is appreciated!

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    Default Re: looking for your thoughts on this one...

    Yes, you should ask what you did that annoyed her. Upon knowing you can then have a better understanding as how to approach the situation from there. Without knowing you are basically just guessing.

    Being direct will showcase that you are taking the lead here as opposed to just cutely maneuvering around the topic using txts in hopes that she will reply. Just don't sound pissed off or be negative, be honest yet direct.

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    Default Re: looking for your thoughts on this one...

    Notice you are now chasing her. "what ever, i dont even know what i did wrong, and your being completely irrational."

    thats what i would say
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: looking for your thoughts on this one...

    She was walking away with her friends while you were drunk. It's possible that the fact you were drunk is the problem itself. You also showed unattractive behaviour by first following her and then sending a text to apologize the next morning. You continued beta behaviour the next day and it's likely that's why she was "busy".


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