O.k., I need good advice. Me and my girlfriend have been working things out since we broke up. We went to a counselling appointment yesterday for the first time and things went really well. Things have been pretty good--we've had a ton of sex since getting back together over a week ago. Officially we are not completely back together according to her at least, because she doesn't want to confuse our son by having me move back in right away. Last night she went out to her cousins house and got pretty drunk. I was at the house watching our son. It has been pretty hard to trust her all the way for me but I've been playing it cool because I don't want to come off as needy or jealous. To make a long story short, she called me around 3:30 in the morning asking me if I would be awake when she got back, because she wanted to blow me. I said of course I would be awake for a reason as good as that! She came home and farked my brains out.
This morning, I went through her phone and found out that she had been dialing this guy over and over again while she was at her cousins house. I know for a fact that this guy is an orbiter that is in love with her. They have had sex before which she has admitted to me in the past but he's a bit gay with his behavior--which turns her off. She had drunk sex with him one night when she was breaking up with her ex before me and they have stayed friends throughout our relationship. I think it's very possible that she had sex with him when we were broken up but I'm not sure. Should I ignore that she called him over and over again last night? She came home to me. Is that all that matters? If I didn't have a kid with this girl, I don't think I could stay with all of the trust issues that I have. I'm trying to work this out because I love her and I want the family thing but I'm having a hard time right now. I don't like my girlfriend having farking orbiters but I know it's just part of the game.