Hey fellas im fairly new to this site and love the fact that we have something like this where we can all help each other towards some of these riduclous women. Some guys are nice anddont deserve to be taken advantage of by these women. Now in my experience and what ive heard when it coes to exs i mosly that u need to havea plan...well not necessarily but having a plan may help. So in this post i am going to come up with ideas and situations that we may be in and try to come up with an overall guide on the best things to do for certain situations. Now like i said i am new but i have read my share of alpha male books but im sure im no expert so experts please contribute would be much appreciated. So ill start by giving an example of my current situation....me and my girl have been dating for about 2 years. We moved in toger around a year and a half. Thats when things i believe went down hill. I became needy and more insecure. Eventually she ended up talking and flirting with her co worker. I think she was doing this on purpose because she says she wants me to change and better myself. Of course i dint know wht tht meant until batman! Cleared that up for me. Pua" batman. But it ended like this. She tild me she was going to go out with the guy so i said ok if ur going to do that theb im leaving. She did it and i left. Got my stuff and dipped. She text me the day after asking where i was. I didnt respond she called and i told her i think we need space she agreed and said she wanted to be herself. I said ok then hung up. I made the mistake of calling back and talking about our problems. After talking she said she loves me i told her the same and she said i can call her tomorow or whenever if im taking some space. Soo!! Here is where im at now.. she text me again monday and said where was i again. I didnt repond. She text me again saying. Where the *bleep are you? Im trying to be nice here. I went ahead and told her im sorry im home and sleepy ill call u tomorow. ( not actually going to call) im teying to do nc to shift power and i feel im off to a good start but i dont know what o do and not sure what appropriate actions to take for certain situations... o starting here i am going to make a template on tuff we can do. Ok as u can see i broke it off kind of on a good note. Im going to wit for her to call or initiate the next attempt of contact. If she contacts me and trys to start a meaningless convo. Ill tell her we stil need space and ill call her back when im ready. Or is it best to continue given deadline times so she can expect it? If she is ready to talk and she apologizes. Ill tell her i accept it and ill meet up so we can talk later this week cuz im busy today. Or would it be ok to meet up the same day?
I kniw this situation will vary for many people but some people just may be in a similiar situation like me and having a plan will help so.. feel free to add comment and lets get the best out of this life that we can get!!!