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    Default template/strategy on getting ex or girlfriend hooked on you again

    Hey fellas im fairly new to this site and love the fact that we have something like this where we can all help each other towards some of these riduclous women. Some guys are nice anddont deserve to be taken advantage of by these women. Now in my experience and what ive heard when it coes to exs i mosly that u need to havea plan...well not necessarily but having a plan may help. So in this post i am going to come up with ideas and situations that we may be in and try to come up with an overall guide on the best things to do for certain situations. Now like i said i am new but i have read my share of alpha male books but im sure im no expert so experts please contribute would be much appreciated. So ill start by giving an example of my current situation....me and my girl have been dating for about 2 years. We moved in toger around a year and a half. Thats when things i believe went down hill. I became needy and more insecure. Eventually she ended up talking and flirting with her co worker. I think she was doing this on purpose because she says she wants me to change and better myself. Of course i dint know wht tht meant until batman! Cleared that up for me. Pua" batman. But it ended like this. She tild me she was going to go out with the guy so i said ok if ur going to do that theb im leaving. She did it and i left. Got my stuff and dipped. She text me the day after asking where i was. I didnt respond she called and i told her i think we need space she agreed and said she wanted to be herself. I said ok then hung up. I made the mistake of calling back and talking about our problems. After talking she said she loves me i told her the same and she said i can call her tomorow or whenever if im taking some space. Soo!! Here is where im at now.. she text me again monday and said where was i again. I didnt repond. She text me again saying. Where the *bleep are you? Im trying to be nice here. I went ahead and told her im sorry im home and sleepy ill call u tomorow. ( not actually going to call) im teying to do nc to shift power and i feel im off to a good start but i dont know what o do and not sure what appropriate actions to take for certain situations... o starting here i am going to make a template on tuff we can do. Ok as u can see i broke it off kind of on a good note. Im going to wit for her to call or initiate the next attempt of contact. If she contacts me and trys to start a meaningless convo. Ill tell her we stil need space and ill call her back when im ready. Or is it best to continue given deadline times so she can expect it? If she is ready to talk and she apologizes. Ill tell her i accept it and ill meet up so we can talk later this week cuz im busy today. Or would it be ok to meet up the same day?

    I kniw this situation will vary for many people but some people just may be in a similiar situation like me and having a plan will help so.. feel free to add comment and lets get the best out of this life that we can get!!!

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    Default Re: template/strategy on getting ex or girlfriend hooked on you again

    I think it best for the next step is to give you a Mindset instead of scripts. Scripts will get you so far then you will find yourself back here. So instead of giving you a single fish, we are going to teach you how to fish.

    Remember that YOU are the prize she is trying to win over. Any emotional outburst she has with you is her desperate attempt for your reaction. Have a little smile on your face whenever she does this because you KNOW what she's trying to do.....she's trying to make sure she still has a affect on you. When she realizes she doesn't anymore she will feel one of the most powerful emotions that one can feel during a break up and thats "fear of loss.' Which is EXACTLY what you want.

    If you do not have a woman at the moment then try to imagine.......imagin e you met a woman who you find unbelievably sexy, smart, and best of all...into you. You click with each other because you have so much in common. The same music, movies, tastes in food. You have a genuine connection that you haven't felt before. I'm talking about the type of woman that makes you say "Where has she been hiding my whole life!" Now compare this woman to your ex....how would you behave towards her? Almost like "Ugh not her again. Ok I'll try and let her down nicely, but I know she is still trying to get me back. I really want it to work out with this new girl so I don't want any drama." Try and filter your behavior through this as I can see you are already doing this from your post.

    Take the break up as a learning experience.....for real. Trying to pretend this is running the risk that your ex will snag you and she will find out that it was all a show. So seriously come to terms with the break up. Forgive yourself and her for all the mistakes that were made. Understand that you are both human and will continue living your lives. Life is too short and you will both meet people that you deserve.

    Now in your situation you have a head start with this. The above advice is meant to get her wanting to talk about getting back together. When it comes down to it, you want HER to do most of the talking and let her steer it. Don't try and get back together just yet. She needs to understand that things need to change for you to re-consider. Remember it most situations it doesn't really matter whose right, it's whoever has the stronger frame. Don't try and CONVINCE her of anything. You are an alpha man and alphas simply state the expectations they want out of the people in their lives and it is up to them whether abide by your expectations or not. Basically, you don't have to take anyones shit.

    Lol I went on a bit of a rant there. But hopefully my advice makes sense and it helps in your situation.

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    Default Re: template/strategy on getting ex or girlfriend hooked on you again

    Batman to the rescue! Lol. I see what your batman. The thing is i dont know if i can develop that Mindset within one night. I do agree that i need to...im not sure how to go about the switch of not actually wanting my girlfriend to wanting after she starts begging.... no ur right. I have a book called alpha male i forget the pua artist name. Have you read it? What do you think about the book?

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    Default Re: template/strategy on getting ex or girlfriend hooked on you again

    I actually have not read that book. I mostly talk out of my ass lol. It takes time to get the Mindset. The trick is "catching yourself in the act" then make the change right then and there. Eventually it will become habit therefore second nature.

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    Default Re: template/strategy on getting ex or girlfriend hooked on you again

    So what if she called me back and started crying when i tell her we still need space. Should i ignore it? Or say im sorry but its for the best or somthin? So u said it really doesnt matter whos fault it was should i really wait for her to apolige and breg? How should i handle the crying?

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    Default Re: template/strategy on getting ex or girlfriend hooked on you again

    Most situation it doesn't matter who's right and who's wrong. If she calls crying you could ignore it. But then you aren't using the situation to do something even more powerful. Letting her know you are sorry and wished things would've worked out for the better will have a much stronger impact than completely ignoring her. This is Cat String Theory. Being just out of reach, but within sight.

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    Default Re: template/strategy on getting ex or girlfriend hooked on you again

    So after Cat String Theory i should still folloq up with nc and say ill talk to her later? So basically what ur saying is contine with nc until she talks about fixin the relatuonship and starts agreeing to making some changes?


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