This is an incredibly complex situation, and I admit and realize my part, and the many mistakes I made.
The present situation (to the best of my objective understanding) in a nutshell is that she has a long history of childhood and teenage sexual abuse, when I met her she pursued me, misrepresented herself and her relationship goals, she compulsively lies, has cheated, and a licensed couples counselor essentially told me to my face that she has some, as of yet, unidentified mental illness.
Now she says that she thinks she never wants to be married to anyone ever, and thinks she is "polyamorous".
But she's the mother of my 2-1/2 year old little boy.
Does any of the knowledge gained in studying PUA apply to this type of girl?
(I've read that 1 in 25 people is a sociopath)