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    thecasualpua is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Trying to Win HER back

    So my girlfriend of a year and a half is starting to go cold on me she says she still loves me and wants to work things out, but I've been the main cause of the pushing away. I get jealous too easily and have pushed her away because of it. Were on a break atm and i really want to Win Her Back. I've hung out with her a couple times since it's happened and she's been Texting this one guy who is in a complete different city than us and is always asking her to come up and hangout with him..I love the girl to death and she's the one who got me to give up the game for something bigger. Any advice on how to react with this new guy in the picture?? and how i can Get Her Back in my life?

    Really need help here guys thanks!

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    Default Re: Trying to Win HER back

    Ah, the famous "let's take a break." I can definitely sympathize with you on this one. You might want to consider Freezing Her Out. As long as you're in communication with her while you're on this "break", you will actually make it easier for her to let you go and move on. I would tell her for starters that would don't believe in breaks and that you have actually been thinking that breaking-up is probably for the best. But, make sure you tell her that you would like to keep her as a friend. It will take quite a bit of acting, but if you pull it off she will be like putty in your hands in no time. Don't cry, beg, or act like you're angry. Just keep an upbeat, positive vibe while saying this. I can relate with you on the jealousy part... Just remember that an alpha male doesn't need to be jealous of any other man that his woman brings up--there is no guy with higher value then him. Give her three to four weeks of no contact while you work on yourself and get ready for round two. Your emotions are your worst enemy while trying to get a girl back--remember that!

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    Default Re: Trying to Win HER back

    Totally agree with the first reply. You have to eliminate the jealously factor at all cost. Yes, for a lot of people this factor is a natural reaction, yet you have to beat it since among women this is a very unattractive trait.

    Who cares if she's texting another guy. Chances are that other guy has no PUA game. Be better than him by showcasing yourself with high self worth. If you're not good at it, work on it, take advice, study & learn, do not just wing it, you won't win that way. There's lots of good info out there. If you are serious, take the time, and read as much as you can.

    Once you understand the concepts of the alpha, it should be easier for you to formulate a successful approach.


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