So, I am trying to work things out with the ex who I was with for a couple years. Split for 7 months while I am constantly working to tame that inner beta.
Got her from being ice cold (right after I stopped begging) to texting me constantly and asking me to dinner when she found out I was passing through her area after a few flakes on her part. We have a great time at dinner but she is testing me and I can feel it. She is constantly taking stabs at me to get me in beta mode I am assuming. I play it cool though and laugh right in her face. She is asking me if I still talk to this girl who she use to pretend she couldnt say her name when we dated so she could refer to her as "The B%T#$". She is referencing to our past relationship and even to us being intimate while I sit there making small talk to the waitress and acting like my ex is just an average looking girl in the restaurant ignoring her bait basically. On the way home things get weird because she is starting to make advances towards me turning her body towards me in the car puts her hand on my back and rubs it for god knows what. I make a joke that that wont work on me anymore (I refuse to reciprocate until she stops her games.) She texts me late that night to make sure I got home safe and I am like score this is like taking candy from a baby......
So I let a weekend go by no contact because I was busy and doing stuff right? Then I contact her to vaguely set up some future plans with no set date. Then it gets fun. She says she is not sure so I am like cool I am busy a few days this week anyway. She asks what I am doing. So I tell her the truth and one of them was hanging out with "The B%T#$".........Sh1t Test full effect. She goes BERSERK. Tells me to go sleep with the girl then act like she does not care (right lol). So, I try to end this conversation gracefully but she continues trying to make me look like I am somehow responsible that she is jealous. So I call her out on her games and make her look like the crazy bad guy which she pathetically tries to flip on me. She goes dark.
I probably should not have contacted her (10 days later, today) but beta made me do it after I confirm she has deleted me from social networks. I text her pretending nothing is wrong and tell her she is a wack job and that I am not sitting here crying my eyes out as nicely and indirectly as possible. I tell her she knows where to find me and left it.
I can hear beta screaming that she is really gone for good but he is getting quieter by the minute.
Am I doing it right?