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    Saund128 is offline PUA in Training
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    Cool Ex just broke it off with me after 2 years out of the blue.

    I was together with my ex for two + years. We recently moved in together and things were going pretty well. There were a few arguments here and there but nothing out of the ordinary. A month into living together she said she needed to take a break, which was a nice way of saying "I'm dumping you". I was completely shocked and devastated. After a few days, I moved out. She continued to find reasons to contact me after the break up for about a week. I wasn't rude when she would text me but I was very short. She finally asked if I was becoming upset by her texting me. I told her we should respect eachothers space right now and that I could not be friends with you. She acted like it wasn't a big deal even though we were best friends.

    It's been a month since the break up now and we haven't contacted one another in a week or so. Here is the kicker. We have mutual friends together that are getting married in early september and we are both "in" the wedding. We are also in college together in the same program. So here is my question. Do I remain in no contact until the wedding or call her to have lunch to clear the air before the wedding? Keep in mind I still have hope in getting her back. I am pretty confident I can get her out to lunch but I don't want to stick my neck out there if she doesn't feel the same way.

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    freestyle is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Ex just broke it off with me after 2 years out of the blue.

    ohh well i am not good in relantionship and i donīt know her better than u.... but every little second is a second in wich another guy could be talkin to her.... try to talk to her but donīt be to needy begging and stuff dont do that, talk to her and say hey I need to talk to u. relax she is not going to say NO the next part is up to you and her (50/50).....now if she does not want to go back with u dont blame yourself or her and keep it together, keep searching and just in case is her lost.... I wish that could help you more . good luck.

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    sure456 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Quote Originally Posted by Saund128 View Post
    I was together with my ex for two + years. We recently moved in together and things were going pretty well. There were a few arguments here and there but nothing out of the ordinary. A month into living together she said she needed to take a break, which was a nice way of saying "I'm dumping you". I was completely shocked and devastated. After a few days, I moved out. She continued to find reasons to contact me after the break up for about a week. I wasn't rude when she would text me but I was very short. She finally asked if I was becoming upset by her texting me. I told her we should respect eachothers space right now and that I could not be friends with you. She acted like it wasn't a big deal even though we were best friends.

    It's been a month since the break up now and we haven't contacted one another in a week or so. Here is the kicker. We have mutual friends together that are getting married in early september and we are both "in" the wedding. We are also in college together in the same program. So here is my question. Do I remain in no contact until the wedding or call her to have lunch to clear the air before the wedding? Keep in mind I still have hope in getting her back. I am pretty confident I can get her out to lunch but I don't want to stick my neck out there if she doesn't feel the same way.
    It's been a month since the break up now and we haven't contacted one another in a week or so. Here is the kicker. We have mutual friends together that are getting married in early september and we are both "in" the wedding. We are also in college together in the same program. So here is my question. Do I remain in no contact until the wedding or call her to hav


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