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Thread: Is ex trying to make me Jelous or just over me?

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    Default Is ex trying to make me Jelous or just over me?

    Hey guys, need some help here because I'm really lost. My ex broke up with me about 10 days ago, and after begging for her back and the normal AFC we went into no contact. Last weekend I posted pictures of me with other girls and me going out, and yesterday, after I liked one of her pictures she posted a bunch of pictures of her partying, guys kissing her cheek etc. she looks pretty ugly in the ones with guys kissing her, and She usually wouldn't post something like that. Is she over me, or trying to get me Jealous? How long should I keep no contact going for? Any insight at all would be great. I still love her and she was very hurt by me, she said she didn't want to talk to me for a while. The first thing that came to mind was that she doesn't give a f about me, but then again it looks like she's trying to make me jealous..... What to do

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    Default Re: Is ex trying to make me Jelous or just over me?

    Eyesick,

    Keep up the no contact.

    You're in such a lucky forum in that you don't have to suffer through the same sh1t most of us did before joining the forum!

    Don't contact her at all. You already begged her, which was a major dlv, so just keep out of contact, and enjoy yourself. Move on.

    If she ends up contacting you, be very curt about your responses at first, and don't respond right away
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    Default Re: Is ex trying to make me Jelous or just over me?

    I'd say right now it's just retaliation to make you mad. The no contact thing is going to require more time than 10 days. But if you stick with it & prove to yourself that you're just fine without her, that's when she's going to show interest again.

    I actually made a post about my own experience with this sort of situation. (here)

    It IS possible to get an ex back. Definitely. But there's a process you need to go through along the way.


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    Default Re: Is ex trying to make me Jelous or just over me?

    Thanks bro! Ya I plan on not contacting her, but do you think she was trying to get me jealous through posting those pictures?

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    Default Re: Is ex trying to make me Jelous or just over me?

    Yes, she is trying to make you jealous and posting pictures like that is a way for her to draw out the beta in you. She wants you to freak out on her and show your jealousy. That way, she can justify the break-up to herself as you being a beta loser, and that she did the right thing by breaking up with you in the first place. Women do most of this shit subconsciously so don't take it personally. If you don't take the bait, she will begin to doubt her decision because not responding to her jealousy shit tests is how an alpha would behave. Stay nc and keep away from her facebook unless you enjoy torturing yourself.
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    Default Re: Is ex trying to make me Jelous or just over me?

    Quote Originally Posted by liukang75 View Post
    Yes, she is trying to make you jealous and posting pictures like that is a way for her to draw out the beta in you. She wants you to freak out on her and show your jealousy. That way, she can justify the break-up to herself as you being a beta loser, and that she did the right thing by breaking up with you in the first place. Women do most of this sh1t subconsciously so don't take it personally. If you don't take the bait, she will begin to doubt her decision because not responding to her jealousy sh1t tests is how an alpha would behave. Stay nc and keep away from her Facebook unless you enjoy torturing yourself.
    Bravo! Bravo! Bravo! Bravo! Bravo! Bravo!
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    Default Re: Is ex trying to make me Jelous or just over me?

    Wow luikang that was a great answer really cleared things up for me!! All that being said, is her trying to make me Jealous a sign she wants me back? It was funny because the pictures she took almost mirrored the ones I posted with other people. End of the day, I really do love her and want her back eventually, I just hope she realizes that I did a lot for her.Thank a lot for the input guys!!

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    Default Re: Is ex trying to make me Jelous or just over me?

    Her trying to make you jealous to begin with shows that she has strong feelings for you. Posting a pic that wasn't one of her best shows desperation. I think that there is a good chance that she does want you back, but you have to give this time in order for her to come to that conclusion on her own. She lost attraction for you, which is why she broke up with you in the first place. You should be aloof and act like you are unaffected by the break-up. Her attraction to you will begin to skyrocket and she will be flooded with warm memories of your time together with each passing day of nc. Btw, it doesn't matter what you do for women. They only really care about how you make them feel.
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    Default Re: Is ex trying to make me Jelous or just over me?

    It sounds like you are both very young still and probably both need to date lots of other people before you find the right one. Anyway you definitely shouldn't beg any girl to get back with you as it will only drive her further away. The no contact rule is very powerful and if she does have any feelings for you it's likely that she will soon be texting or calling you if you give her plenty of space. If she is trying to make you jealous by posting photos of her with other guys then this is a sign that she still likes you. Hope it all works out.

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    Default Re: Is ex trying to make me Jelous or just over me?

    Delete her from any social networking sites, delete her number and don't give her any idea of what your doing. You don't have to prove that you have a social life to her thru facebook. Curiosity is your biggest weapon. In the mean time work on yourself and mingle with other women. Get your mind off of her.


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