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    Default Re: My ex decided to text me after nc for 5 weeks now

    Sorry i haven't posted on here for weeks now, I been so caught up with work and I just recently moved out as well..

    Time to update my personal life with Mr.Batman aka my therapist lol..

    Long story short, we started texting each other again...We hang out the same group of friends, so we finally got some alone time I Kino'd her a bit just grabbed her face and played with her hands she allowed it.. I didn't try to kiss her to make any major moves

    We talked for a while then it got serious she just told me about her life style and how she's doing but nothing about our past relationship..

    So the night the ended,next day I texted and we talked so I decided to ask her if I can come over her place and see her since I left my clothes at her house when we used to be together still.

    She texted me and said maybe.....I'm like thats fine if not you can just bring me my clothes the time I see you. Then latter on that night she texted me and said she was tired and was going to bed.

    So now im at the point where we been texting each other alot and it seems like every single time I try to ask her to hang out she keeps avoiding me and pushing me away, I know for a fact that deep inside she wants to see me but I don't know why she keeps pushing me away like that.

    If she really didn't have any feelings for me why would allow me to kino her and didn't say or do anything about it? I don't know what to do man it's driving me nuts and shit.

    Thanks for reading

    -George

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    Default Re: My ex decided to text me after nc for 5 weeks now

    It could be that she's using you as an emotional crutch, only letting you get as close as she wants for whatever she needs. Or perhaps whenever she starts getting intense feelings for you again she backs off so she doesnt get too involved. In order to get to the bottom of this dilemma maybe try being incosistent with your texts i.e. Next time she texts you wait a few hours then say "Sorry, I was out with a friend" or something like that. If she gets really curious as to who/what you were hanging out with/doing you could get a glimpse into what she's thinking and go from there. Attempting to get an ex back can be emotionally taxing so if you're not too invested in her I'd say cut and run.

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    Default Re: My ex decided to text me after nc for 5 weeks now

    I know man I feel the same way, I did lag on my texts take hours to reply just to see where I stand. She got upset and brought it up to the point where she stopped replying to me cause she hates it when I lag. She would be like wow it took you 3 hours just to write that? but she doesn't get too personal about it or any kind of relationship talk.

    And yes she is worth it to me, that's why im trying really hard to win her back

    Thanks for replying bro

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    Default Re: My ex decided to text me after nc for 5 weeks now

    I know man I feel the same way, I did lag on my texts take hours to reply just to see where I stand. She got upset and brought it up to the point where she stopped replying to me cause she hates it when I lag. She would be like wow it took you 3 hours just to write that? but she doesn't get too personal about it or any kind of relationship talk.

    And yes she is worth it to me, that's why im trying really hard to win her back

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    Default Re: My ex decided to text me after nc for 5 weeks now

    That's a good ioi if she get's upset that you don't text her back, it shows that it affects her without you in her life. And I would'nt worry too much about her getting upset with it, It just goes to show her that you have a life beyond her and you're not just sitting by the phone waiting for a text (even though you might be lol). From this point on I'd say you should keep things lighthearted and flirty with her. Instead of waiting 3 hours to text her back wait 20 minutes...then on the next text wait 45 minutes...then 10 minutes etc. The inconsistency keeps her interest(thinking about you) while simultaniously being fun and flirty seduces her back to you. I've tried getting my ex back as a side project for a while now with varying degrees of success and it's mostly an uphill battle, your own emotions tend to cloud your judgement and make you screw up. Hindsight is 20/20 so I'm happy to try and help anyway I can. But just remember the odds are stacked against you so be emotionally prepared for the worst.

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    Default Re: My ex decided to text me after nc for 5 weeks now

    Yo Stylist_01, I'm no expert, but it sounds like u are definitely making progress with her, best of luck with it and do keep us updated on how u go I'm hoping to get back with my girl too, and its good to see a brother succeed!

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    Default Re: My ex decided to text me after nc for 5 weeks now

    hey guys i know it's been awhile now, i been working 6 days week now and i get one day to myself so i just go out with my friends and im trying not too think too much about my ex so that's why u haven't seen my post on here as much as anymore. I really appreciate your feed backs hotel and thanks diesel I really hope you can get your ex back!! let me update the situation with you guys.


    so my friend arranged a dinner just randomly one friday night and both my ex and I were invited. We went to eat dinner we had some small talks during the meal and I did some Kino on her as well ( played with her hair,touched her face and was grabbing her hands as well)

    She allowed it and didn't really say anything so I'm assuming this is a good sign, then again the question came up, " so why are you eating with us today? shouldn't u be eating with your gf instead"?

    I clearly answered that question like at least 5 times already.. I don't know why she keeps on asking me about my gf when I told her im not dating anyone so this time I didn't bother answering her question I just changed the subject on her and I can tell that she wasn't too happy but since we were with my other friends as well she didn't make a big deal out of it.

    So after that we had dessert then we spitted up then I took her phone and gave her a kiss on the cheek. Latter on that night she texted and said " I really appreciate you taking me home....ASSHOLE!" and I replied and said "its cool and uhhhh goodnight to u too "


    So I'm assuming these are good signs so far, she didn't make any moves on me accepting for grabbing my hand while we were in the car.. I just feel like she's not 100% ready to get back with me yet and I should give it some more time that's all.

    In conclusion I guess I won the battle but not the WAR so I don't want to get my hopes up just yet lol... Ill be more then happy to keep you guys updated with my life just reply this post if you guys are curious if not then it's really no big deal lol..

    Thanks for reading,
    George

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    Default Re: My ex decided to text me after nc for 5 weeks now

    Definitely let us know! good luck!

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    Default Re: My ex decided to text me after nc for 5 weeks now

    Current update on my situation with my ex so i guess we are kinda seeing each other we passed the point of being just friends but no official yet, every single time i try to go for a major move like try to make out with her try to touch in her *** she wouldn't let me lol...

    She's bothered about the fact that I was seeing another girl when weren't together, i even confronted her about it.. even though i was only seeing that chick for like 2 weeks and nothing really happened between us.

    She would me hold her hands and we cuddle and stuff like that but every single time i try to go for the kill she pushes me away, im kinda lost right now at the moment and don't know what to do from here

    i wanna be like before again where there was no boundaries between us it seems like shes taking the lead and telling me what to do basically. I wanna even up the playing fields with her but at the same time im not her bf so i don't want to tell her how i feel cause it makes me feel like a wuss lol


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