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    Default Re: Need advice on next move with ex - she broke NC now pulling away

    Just got a tirade of abusive messages from my ex ! Not quite what I expected but good indicator it was probably a sh!t test! Do I just maintain this course of action?

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    Default Re: Need advice on next move with ex - she broke NC now pulling away

    What kind of texts? And what course? To walk away completely? Because that part is up to you my friend.

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    Default Re: Need advice on next move with ex - she broke NC now pulling away

    Ok ... Here's how the weekend played out. I have frozen my ex out, deleted her on Facebook and asked if I could collect the remainder of my things from her house to which she sent a fairly angry message. I replied that it wasn't a reaction to anything she had done, I just wanted but of closure/space. She replied again but in a much friendly tone asking "so you don't want to maintain a friendship?!?" "I understand and obviously don't want you to feel crap, enjoy your weekend whatever you do " she knew I was away this weekend with some friends although not the details. I've got to admit it has me worried ive over reacted and am considering contacting her for a face to face talk as feel it's been long enough since our initial argument/breakup to do it calmly. What's the best course of action ... Continue to just freeze her out? Or contact her?

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    Default Re: Need advice on next move with ex - she broke NC now pulling away

    I was going for a push/pull effect! Have I pushed too far?

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    Default Re: Need advice on next move with ex - she broke NC now pulling away

    No, you haven't pushed too far. This is exactly what you should be doing. Maintain a friendship?!! Women are crazy! She's starting to realize that she isn't going to be able to friendzone your ass and she's starting to doubt her decision to break-up. Keep giving her fear of loss. Your response should be that you would like to be friends someday but not right now--nothing personal.
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    Default Re: Need advice on next move with ex - she broke NC now pulling away

    Hey man, I wanted to let you know that I think you're in a good spot right now. You've got her right where you want her so don't fark it up! She is going to continue acting like she is just fine with the break-up. You need to do the same no matter what she throws at you. It's all an act and women have this post break-up etiquette down to an art-form. Do not contact her for anything!!! Let her contact you and only respond hours later or even the next day if possible.
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    Default Re: Need advice on next move with ex - she broke NC now pulling away

    I farked up! She messaged again and I said why don't we meet up n talk face to face ... She said no she would just end up crying and frustrated as said all the things she had to say ... I bit and replied saying we should try and patch things up, even used the L word!!! Wish I'd read your post earlier!! Tried to recover position slightly by saying that I don't think we can be friends right now but maybe someday ... Plus she knows I'm leaving on deployment for two months so may feel but of pressure there. Damn it!! Cheers for help though it's much appreciated! I will check back on forums more regularly before acting next time!!

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    Default Re: Need advice on next move with ex - she broke NC now pulling away

    Relax, just go back to nc. You haven't totally destroyed it yet but you're going to have to get your emotions under control if you want to come out of this nose-dive that you're in.
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    Default Re: Need advice on next move with ex - she broke NC now pulling away

    Thanks for the support i just need to have a strong word with myself! I will go back to full on NC and let her feel the fear of loss for a good while. Hopefully she will also get to learn about my weekend away with friends and an old flame ... It also helped pick up my confidence again so positive all round. The NC worked well initially actually. Again thanks for the advice ... The help has paid off when I've stuck to the letter, hope other guys can learn from my experiences as well!

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    Default Re: Need advice on next move with ex - she broke NC now pulling away

    Take some pics this weekened of you having a good time and post them on your facebook. Also, really have a good time! You deserve it man. I was in the military also and I remember having to go on patrol for months at a time. Pretty soon you'll be on patrol and you'll be kicking yourself for not taking advantage of the time that you now have. Don't let her ruin it for you. The best way to get a woman back is to just move on with your life. That's some jedi shit for you.
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