Re: Need advice on next move with ex - she broke NC now pulling away
There's nothing that you can do. Just let her do her thing and try not dwell on it. I know it hurts and you're jealous but every time you get a negative thought like that just go to your happy place--wherever that may be. I know that sounds funny but it works if you practice. When you have down time, read up on everything that you can that is game-related. I would focus now on getting over her. When you get back in, you might not even want to rekindle the relationship but if you do, you'll be in a good place emotionally to do it. You could just send her a message like "hey, been thinking about you lately--wanna meet for coffee?". Start gaming chicks on facebook for practice while you're deployed. There's all kinds of facebook game stuff on here. Hang in there man!!!
“The great mistake is to anticipate the outcome of the engagement; you ought not to be thinking of whether it ends in victory or defeat. Let nature take its course, and your tools will strike at the right moment.” -Bruce Lee