Top 10 Stats
Latest Posts Loading... Loading...
Loading...
Loading...
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Loading...
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

Results 1 to 3 of 3
  1. #1
    linking is offline Banned
    Points: 8,553, Level: 64
    Level completed: 35%, Points required for next Level: 197
    Overall activity: 8.8%
    Achievements:
    Social7 days registered5000 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Aug 2012
    Location
    Uk
    Posts
    876
    Points
    8,553
    Level
    64
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    0

    Default Finding it really hard to close with girls after breakup

    Hi guys,

    Basically me and my ex both went away to work this summer, me in Barcelona and her in Australia. We decided to stay together because we were completely in love but it's been twelve weeks since I saw her and a week ago she told me, over Skype, that she no longer felt the same, had forgotten what it was like to be with me and wanted to end it.

    Being the tool that I am I tried to remain impassive but couldn't do it and had to hang up to avoid breaking down in front of her. Now normally when I break up with a girl I hit the town, tear it up and f close some random hottie and this solves my problem. However this time I've been out twice and just can't close with the girls and I can't figure out why.....I just can't get them to show any interest for any length of time.

    Never had this problem before, please help, it's killing my confidence and I can't stop thinking about my ex, really need to get over her

    Apologies for the long winded thread lol.

    Linking x

  2. #2
    whitedragon is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
    Points: 15,299, Level: 79
    Level completed: 90%, Points required for next Level: 51
    Overall activity: 99.0%
    Achievements:
    Social10000 Experience Points31 days registered
    Join Date
    May 2012
    Posts
    1,032
    Points
    15,299
    Level
    79
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    675

    Default Re: Finding it really hard to close with girls after breakup

    I went through a stage where I was having trouble being confident and gaining attraction...it happened after a break up and after another girl kissed me and then was swept away by an ex that rolled back into town before I could make anything further happen. I was also looking for someone of the same calibre or better than my ex. I spoke about it with a mate and he gave me some great advice. 'you're aiming too high too soon...sometimes you have to kiss the frog before you get the princess'. Snakes and ladders. I took his advice and that weekend went to a party. I choose an easy target...a chubby but quite beautiful and fun girl. Took her home and bingo I had re-set the counter. It also takes a while to get over someone you love. The same friend as before told me if you like someone it may take half the time you went out with them to get over them so only time heals. You dont have to be desperate to get back out there. It's often fun to have your own freedom for a while and empower your inner game with hobbies, activities and meeting new people.

  3. #3
    linking is offline Banned
    Points: 8,553, Level: 64
    Level completed: 35%, Points required for next Level: 197
    Overall activity: 8.8%
    Achievements:
    Social7 days registered5000 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Aug 2012
    Location
    Uk
    Posts
    876
    Points
    8,553
    Level
    64
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    0

    Default Re: Finding it really hard to close with girls after breakup

    Thanks mate, makes me feel better knowing someone has gone through this and come out the other side


Similar Threads

  1. Foreign girls - how to close them
    By justinian in forum Approaching, Running Sets & Building Attraction
    Replies: 6
    Last Thread: 08-01-2012, 12:56 AM
  2. Finding a pivot on Craigslist
    By DareMe in forum Approaching, Running Sets & Building Attraction
    Replies: 4
    Last Thread: 07-21-2012, 05:18 PM
  3. Inner Game: On the Road to Finding Your Happiness
    By dice89 in forum Members Lounge
    Replies: 1
    Last Thread: 02-11-2012, 12:02 PM
  4. Finding a lover online
    By mansoorkbl in forum Online And Text Game
    Replies: 0
    Last Thread: 03-26-2011, 03:48 AM
  5. This girls is a hard one to crack!
    By SuWoo in forum General Questions
    Replies: 0
    Last Thread: 03-15-2011, 07:46 PM

Bookmarks

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •  
DMCA.com