Re: How do i Fend off orbiters during break up when trying to get ex back
When I decided that I wanted my ex back it was after I had already taken her off the pedestal that I had placed her on. I made a list of all of her faults and realized that she wasn't the goddess that I had made her out to be. I knew when I was trying to get her back that it could go either way. I wanted her but I didn't need her to fulfill who I was as a man. Maybe she sensed it, who knows? They get really turned on when they know that you won't chase after them like a puppy dog.
“The great mistake is to anticipate the outcome of the engagement; you ought not to be thinking of whether it ends in victory or defeat. Let nature take its course, and your tools will strike at the right moment.” -Bruce Lee