So me and this girl dated for 6 months around a year and a half ago. After the 6 moths, she needed her space and messed around with other people while I became yet another AFC. After a few months, she would get jealous and flip on me when she would see me making out with other girls. So for the past year she claimed that we still needed space, but would she would only have sex with me and never got past a few dates with other dudes. Three weeks ago we got into a huge argument when I found out she visted a dude in another state so she felt that we needed a break so I could "value our friendship".
Gentleman, I have entered the friend zone, or as she feels, I have been the "friend" this past year.
So I have started NC three weeks ago. I went to the hospital on tuesday for a checkup and checked in on FB at the hospital. Told my friends that I would need another surgery soon. She calls me 5 times, telling me to please call her back and that she is worried, wants to make sure im ok. I called, we talked, I kept the convo kinda conservative and told her I had to go. She finished the convo with "I just want you to know that you have people in your life that really care about you." This was two days ago.
I miss her and really do want her back, but I know she wants to talk to other dudes right now and as much as it freakin sucks and breaks my heart I know that this space could help her (and me) get a better understanding and see a different perspective on our relationship.
Tonight my friends want me to go to a club with them (she frequents this place), I have been avoiding her as much as I can but I know she is going to be there tonight and a good change it will be with another guy.
GENTLEMAN, what do I do if she approaches me? How can I keep my cool if I see a dude making ou with her?
Tips for a smooth evening out?