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    JT2012 is offline PUA in Training
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    Cool 2 Week NC and it's club night. Help!

    BACKSTORY:

    So me and this girl dated for 6 months around a year and a half ago. After the 6 moths, she needed her space and messed around with other people while I became yet another AFC. After a few months, she would get jealous and flip on me when she would see me making out with other girls. So for the past year she claimed that we still needed space, but would she would only have sex with me and never got past a few dates with other dudes. Three weeks ago we got into a huge argument when I found out she visted a dude in another state so she felt that we needed a break so I could "value our friendship".

    Gentleman, I have entered the friend zone, or as she feels, I have been the "friend" this past year.

    So I have started NC three weeks ago. I went to the hospital on tuesday for a checkup and checked in on FB at the hospital. Told my friends that I would need another surgery soon. She calls me 5 times, telling me to please call her back and that she is worried, wants to make sure im ok. I called, we talked, I kept the convo kinda conservative and told her I had to go. She finished the convo with "I just want you to know that you have people in your life that really care about you." This was two days ago.

    PRESENT:

    I miss her and really do want her back, but I know she wants to talk to other dudes right now and as much as it freakin sucks and breaks my heart I know that this space could help her (and me) get a better understanding and see a different perspective on our relationship.

    Tonight my friends want me to go to a club with them (she frequents this place), I have been avoiding her as much as I can but I know she is going to be there tonight and a good change it will be with another guy.

    GENTLEMAN, what do I do if she approaches me? How can I keep my cool if I see a dude making ou with her?

    Tips for a smooth evening out?

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    Default Re: 2 Week NC and it's club night. Help!

    I am giving you a female perspective on your problem. It seems as if she is very confused and a bit immature. It's good that you have kept up a friendship with her and it does sound as if she likes you otherwise she wouldn't have bothered calling you at the hospital and show concern at your surgery.
    I would go along with your friends to the club and if you see her with another guy just be friendly and don't show signs of jealousy no matter how bad you feel. Showing how upset you are may push her away and you could lose her friendship. Just be patient and you may find that she will get back with you in the end.

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    Default Re: 2 Week NC and it's club night. Help!

    I'll tell you from experience monfrer, this girl even though you may think you love her at this point, that kind of behavior she is throwin out right now is only going to get worse and this situation will turn terrifying before you "gain perspective during your space." She is in your head right now, as some sligs (girls) can do that much better than others, and can get to even the best/most knowledgeable of us. Personally I've been in two situation just like what you were describing and quite frankly, you have only seen the beginning of the warped terror. All things considered and that being said if you still want to give it a shot my suggestion is do what you were doing before. Make out and/or bang other sligs. She will continue to do what she does regardless, you have no power over it. To top it off the more sligs you get with or she even just sees you talking to, her behavior is going to become more sociopathic, jealous, warped, and downright scary. Is that something you want to have a home, children, and a life with? Exactly. And oh yeah I know female friends or friendly female well wishers will give you advice and they do legitimately mean well however, it's all false, wrong, and incorrect. Best of luck my man.

    -Danny Vegas


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