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Thread: Help, dont know where to go from here on getting back X

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    Default Re: Help, dont know where to go from here on getting back X

    chill out bro. you need to continue focusing on yourself and not let yourself down at this stage! she commented on how good you looked and you guys had a great time. focus on how u gonna have a great time with her AGAIN instead of thinking about how she's talking to other orbiters, etc. Girls are biologically programmed to test the field, to find that one best 'soulmate", especially now that she's "single".

    You shouldn't have pushed things and said things like I WANT TO BRING YOU OUT... etc. THis kinda forces her to do things, which at this point she's still vulnerable and afraid of taking things too fast.
    Bro, i know how hurt and tired you are of playing games... but getting back an ex is a emotionally taxing thing! with enough effort you can pull it off!

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    Default Re: Help, dont know where to go from here on getting back X

    ok bros, so today she finally texted me back from yesterday me asking her, and she says ' ok, but im busy this week, maybe this weekend or next week we can ' , which is total just BS.. you are NEVER that busy.. so i called her later we talked for 5 mins again, she tells me how she has a friend coming over to help her move her furniture back because she just got new carpet.

    again telling me about her FRIEND which obviously is a guy, im just so sick of it.. how can she think it is ok to give me this nonsense?? i don't even think it's a Sh1t Test because of how nonchalant she is.. she gives enugh to piss me off and then doesn't give the details..NO guy is moving furniture for a newly single chick with no intentions.. PLUS all these friends are new and from her new school..

    i'm just at the point to tell her, i can't be her friend, and i wont be.. so if she is thinking that then to leave me the frick alone.. thoughts/?

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    Default Re: Help, dont know where to go from here on getting back X

    Yo bro, I read through all 10 pages of your thread, and it seemed that you were in a REALLY good situation on 9/9 where you went over to her place! Alot of guys trying to get back with ex gf would so kill to be in that position, and I was actually happy for you!

    Maybe just chill abit regarding the latest situation? If you confront her with the "lover or nothing, no friend bs" ultimatium you may kill all the progress you have achieved so far, which would be a real shame since you seem to be progressing well...

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    Default Re: Help, dont know where to go from here on getting back X

    You absolutely have to know she wants you back or else I would keep your distance. I just had a great time with my ex at a wedding we were at together. She text me the next day and seemed to be very interested in keeping a conversation, but I kept it short. And I will continue to keep it short and keep my distance until I am positive she wants to reconcile. If not I could end up in a position where I am trying to do something she doesn't want. Or I talk to her a lot while she is farking some other dude. Yeah I miss her but I'm not going to throw my dignity away for a hail mary attempt to get her back.

    Keep your distance and maintain composure when she contacts you. I am on a roller coaster just like you are. One second you seem like your on top of the world and the next you feel miserable. Hang in there.

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    Default Re: Help, dont know where to go from here on getting back X

    We're all in the same boat T.T ... only good news here is that I have been lining up date after date and it has definitely helped me move forward. I'm going on almost 2 months now, only 3 weeks no contact but I won't talk to her again until at least October perhaps just to say hi, if I even do that. The point here is, unless she comes back and says openly that she wants to get back together, or she misses you (then call her out and say well do you want to restart?) then I would suggest just moving forward. It sucks, but if and when you realize this, good things will happen.

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    Default Re: Help, dont know where to go from here on getting back X

    well we finally talked today after a few days of cat and mouse and phone tag with eachother, and i basically just told her what was up.. when i say that i didn't push for any relationship or anything, i just told her that we have a lot of connections and it is a shame she has her walls up.. anyways it went ok, she started to get emotional and couldnt talk or would be balling, so i let her go, but the point is during the conversation i didnt say anything about getting together, but she was the one who said ' she isn't ready for a romance ' but wants to talk and hang out, but i had told her, i never was pushing for a romance, and just want to let things happen.. she agreed, anyways, don't really know where to go from here

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    Default Re: Help, dont know where to go from here on getting back X

    Sounds very familiar to how mine went weeks ago... good luck buddy

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    Default Re: Help, dont know where to go from here on getting back X

    Honestly victory. I havnt been on here for Afew weeks due to vacation. Your situation hasn't really changed. You just getting yourself in the freind one . Do not hang out with her do not talk to her! Ignore her and leave her be she will relise that she wants you or not. You being around means she has her cake and can eat it. I've made all these mistakes and really farmed it.

    After 5 months I'm in a great place I cut her loose about a month ago deleted her of Facebook etc and felt great ever since!

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    Default Re: Help, dont know where to go from here on getting back X

    i understand.. but i feel like she still wants me, but is just loving the new attention she is receiving from all the new people she's meeting from school and every orbiter..SHE never used to be on facebook ever, now her facebook display pic has changed 3 times in the last month, her latest one is her looking her best, and it really hurts actually..im just sick of itt

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    Default Re: Help, dont know where to go from here on getting back X

    Don't talk to her. Freeze her out. Get over her. My ex just posted a picture of her and the guy she left me for as her profile pic. This basically means she is with him. After all the good signs I thought I saw, it meant nothing. Thank god I didn't act on it.


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