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Thread: Help, dont know where to go from here on getting back X

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    Default Re: Help, dont know where to go from here on getting back X

    well boys, the weekend is here, and i knew she couldnt hold out, at about 8pm she texts me a pretty long text, saying " sorry i havent been in touch, school is taking over my life, how are you? not to be a buzz kill but did u ever find out why century link charged u so much? idk what to make of it lol makes no sense " , i waited about an hour and replied with something that should make her laugh, and then said how things couldnt be better and how ive been meeting a lot of people now that classes are back.. it felt good that she contacted me.. but whats hilarious is that she says ' sorry ihavent been in touch ' when reality is i havent been trying to contact her at all, lol, and when she did try to contact me via phone on wednesday i didnt answer.. so i wanted to be like ' uhh we havent been in touch ebcause i want it that way ' lol, anyways, thats my update. sorry about gramar and sp, im on my phone

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    Default Re: Help, dont know where to go from here on getting back X

    eh no response from my texts.. even though her texting me was out of the blue and she kind of had a question, think she is upset i waited to text her, and made it sound like i was doing great?? comments guys? thanks

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    Default Re: Help, dont know where to go from here on getting back X

    Why are you texting her in the first place?

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    Default Re: Help, dont know where to go from here on getting back X

    because she texted me questions that I had to answer.. but i waited an hour or so..listen so i woke up this morning at 10am and sure enough she had texted me back, laughing at my jokes earlier, and being a very like excited texts, lots of exclamations and overall happy mood. she said how she's SO happy for me lol, then at 11:15 an hour later she calls me, and I answer!! regretting answering, but I saw the text then thought she had called right after, I was half asleep I didn't realize she was calling an hour later or I def wouldn't have answered.. Anyways, she qualified the hell out of herself, telling me how law school is, how good it is and all the activities she's doing there, and talked tome about what i was doing saying she's so happy for me, then i took control of the convo and asked where she was, she's like ' im getting my birth control, not that im using it, but it keeps me regulated ' and this is true it does regulate her other wise her menstral cycle is a mess. but still, why tell me that? and why tell me ' not that i using it ' is this just a Sh1t Test? right after she said that i was just like well it looks like i have to go get ready talk to you later, bye and ended the conversation..

    hearing that she was getting BC pissed me off to the point so much but I couldnt stick around and let her know it bothered me..so then me being the BETA bitch i am, responded to her texts after we got off the phone, ( there was unanswered questions ) and i made jokes and as I type this she is answering me back with all happiness and lmao's etc.. like she is so happy to hear from me, and sending like 4 or 5 texts, heavily invested..

    guys, WTF do i do? i went out last night and i swear i talked to the hottest girl in the bar, and neggd her to death, every AFC was coming up to her buying her drinks, finally i got in close and sat down telling her, you're going to buy me a drink. lol, worked like a charm she was blown away. the point is, i can game other girls, but the one i want is this.. comments.

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    Default Re: Help, dont know where to go from here on getting back X

    Her mentioning birth control was a giant shit-test. At least you're starting to educate yourself and you're starting to recognize them for what they are. This isn't going to be easy...

    The best thing you can do is get out and talk to as many women as possible. Keep practicing and focus on trying to get a number or a kiss close. It will boost your self-esteem and make you're future converstions with your ex that much easier.

    You're doing great if you can even manage to get yourself out of the house while your hurting like this. Give yourself a pat on the back! Make her chase you from here on out. Don't respond to her texts or phone-calls right away. You know better and you know it's destroying your chances with her so stop!
    “The great mistake is to anticipate the outcome of the engagement; you ought not to be thinking of whether it ends in victory or defeat. Let nature take its course, and your tools will strike at the right moment.” -Bruce Lee

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    Default Re: Help, dont know where to go from here on getting back X

    thanks lui, yeah i figured it for a Sh1t Test, thats why i gave no reaction and didn't give any type of jealous response or questions about it.. just act as if she didnt say a word, lol.. guess what? she has been texting me pretty much up until now, which we havnt done in forever, just random small talk, im giving back 1 or 2 word answers, slowly.. she is telling me how she's going to a poker game down by her school tonight etc.. which i know will be infested with men, obviously, so its just cracks me up.. another sh1t test, because she knows how important poker is to my life, and how i turned her on to it.. anyways.. we'lll see if she tries to hit me up later tonight.

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    Default Re: Help, dont know where to go from here on getting back X

    today has sucked, no word from her at all since yesterday after i left it open ended for her to contact me at night if she wanted too..sucks man, its like she comes into my life on the weekend just in time to get me thinking about her all weekend.. sucks hardcore, don't really know what to do now, sticking with NC until she initiates it, but also she is moving soon to a city about 20 minutes south of me, isnt a big deal, but i feel like the door is closing.. really tough day for me today, sat at home, hurricane has kept everyone inside..this is kind of become a blog for me, every time i feel like i want to text her, i come read these forums, FML , this is so hard and its been literally since june 29.. basically 2 months and I still would have her back in a heart beat. :\

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    Default Re: Help, dont know where to go from here on getting back X

    I know what you mean man. My ex broke up with me 3 days after yours. Its been an interesting roller coaster ride since then. I don't know about you, but I think it's good to look back and see how far you have come. Yeah you will have your bad days but sh1t will get better.

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    Default Re: Help, dont know where to go from here on getting back X

    Oh boys I agree with you! You think your fine then your mind wanders and that's it you remember l the good times and stuff. But looking back its gone from being like that 24/7 to every so often.

    I'm in a fortunate/unfortunate situation my ex is moving 4 hours away from me next week. It'll really let me move on and when she returns at Xmas I WILL be ok. Thats how I look at it.

    Buttttttt on a happier note was talking to an old flame that I thought broke my heart years ago lol. She said "there's still sonething here after all these years" so they don't forget just bottle it up. They are better at it than us!

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    Default Re: Help, dont know where to go from here on getting back X

    so she called me last night at 1030.. i was in the shower so didn't answer, i saw she had left a voicemail and she sounded cute, so i decided to call back.. we shot the breeze for a few minutes, caught up, i was brief and tried to leave some mystery..and then after a little while i told her i had to go.. idk why she does this, :/


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