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Thread: Help, dont know where to go from here on getting back X

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    Default Re: Help, dont know where to go from here on getting back X

    well boys, friday, haven't heard from her since tuesday..im beginning to think she is talking to someone, and in the lonely times that is when she is calling/texting me. maybe he is stringing her along and she is texting me when he's acting weird? who knows..

    i initiated contact tonight via text for the first time in weeks. i made my text sound really upbeat and positive and told her i did osmething that reminded me of her ( something only we did with eachother )..and then I said theres a new movie coming out this weekend and that this is a good weekend for me to see it with her, then said talk to you soon. i havent heard back yet..this was 40 mins ago.. she has no reason not to answer my text, unless she is out with another dude.. which is why I am thinking thats the case..

    last weekend on friday when she initiated contact it was at like 7:45 pm, then i wrote back around 930pm, and i didnt hear back from her till the next morning...makes me think she goes out with someone on fridays.. i am not sure, but i have decided that if she is im walking away from it.. i just want to know how i can find out if she is without asking? i currently have my facebook deactivated, so i cant see what's going on there, but my friends would tell me if they saw something..

    it will be interesting to see what she replies to this text, especially since it is a 3 day weekend. if she pulls the no time card, then I know i need to walk away, and at that point i will tell her i need some major space..and at that point, i'll have to reactivate FB, take a ton of new pics with new girls, and hopefully just make her jealous and crazy..

    idk guys, its been 2 months, and her birthday is also coming up in 27 days which makes this even more annoying..

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    Default Re: Help, dont know where to go from here on getting back X

    so she texts me back, apparently she has tonsilitis so has been sick. she also has moved out of our old apartment and put all of her stuff in a uhaul and will be moving to the city where her lawschool is on monday.. this city is about 25 minutes from our current one, not really a big deal.

    im not sure if i will hang out with her or not this weekend, if she's sick i doubt she will want to.. idk im going back to NC and waiting to hear from her. just updating, ;\

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    Default Re: Help, dont know where to go from here on getting back X

    Man, it's been two months? I think it's definitely time to let go of this one. I know that you don't want to hear that but nc is only really effective when used at the beginning of the break-up after you agree to it and become missing from her life. Alot of time has passed now... I would suggest you go nc for yourself at this point and concentrate on moving on. Have you been out talking to other girls? Nothing cures a bad case of oneitis quite like the touch of another woman. Let her go man! I've been there. I lost a good one and tried to get her back after it was too late. It was just a waste of time and energy on my part but it was meant to be in the long run. I wouldn't have my son if I didn't go through that phase in my life. Keep learning all this pua stuff and you will know what to do if the next one starts to pull away.
    “The great mistake is to anticipate the outcome of the engagement; you ought not to be thinking of whether it ends in victory or defeat. Let nature take its course, and your tools will strike at the right moment.” -Bruce Lee

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    Default Re: Help, dont know where to go from here on getting back X

    bro its been 2 months because the first month i was so beta and didn't realize it where i went through the phase of askign for her back etc.. since i began doing the things im supposed to we are on good terms, she has been contacting me etc..lui, i appreciate the advice, but i am not ready to let her go just yet, its not about other girls either, i know i can get other girls, i have other girls asking to hang with me already.. its just she's the one i want.

    now today she sends me the most ridiculous text i could ever imagine, and i don't know how to respond...before we broke up she used to speak of marriage all the time and engagement rings and what she would want.. well i had a downpayment put on a ring and almost had it paid for before we broke up, so when we did like after the first week, i sent her a pic of me holding the ring, and she responded ' i dont know what to say, thats exactly what i would have wanted '.. and i left it at that..fast forward till today where we are on good terms, and today she texts me " this may seem kind of odd but, me and my girlfriend jenna were talking about it. Could u send me the picture of the future engagement ring? " she literally text me that..i texted my local friends that know of my situation and they couldn't believe it.. i mean the balls to say that, and ' future engagement ' like what is she thinking, we are going to be engaged but right now just can't be together? she has always said that we ' just cant be together right now '.. anyways i didn't respond and this was hours ago, because i have no idea what to say..its really a sensitive subject, so her bringing it up and asking for a pic of the ring i got her, and saying ' future engagement ' just has me baffled.. help please? thanks

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    Default Re: Help, dont know where to go from here on getting back X

    Wow. I definitely think she is doing it to see what you say. That is some heavy stuff. I don't even know how you should respond to that. All I could think of saying is answering with a question. Somehow casually ask her why she would ask that. Maybe throw a joke in there or something.

    Something like:

    Sorry I couldn't get back to you sooner, been pretty busy. Your friend wants to see that ring? That's somewhat of an odd question to ask. Is she getting married?

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    Default Re: Help, dont know where to go from here on getting back X

    just now your post, i don't know what to make of it either.. haven't heard anything else from her since that text, and it was totally out of the blue so.. i just didnt answer her back..

    thanks for the suggestion but i really dont even want to go there with her, and yes her friend is already engaged so i really have no idea why she would do that.. its either she thinks im totally over her and its ok to just talk about, or?? who knows

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    Default Re: Help, dont know where to go from here on getting back X

    That was going to be my next suggestion. If it is a sign she wants to get back with you then not responding is a good way to go.

    I have learned that if you don't absolutely know if she wants to get back with you then stick to what your doing. My ex seems to be very confused with what she wants and she'll need to figure that out before anything happens.

    There is going to come a point with some of us where they will want us back and we'll have to make the decision of getting back with them. After going through all this crap with my ex I don't even know if I would get back with her.

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    Default Re: Help, dont know where to go from here on getting back X

    Who cares what they want? They don't know what they want. Be the men and lead her into what you want.

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    Default Re: Help, dont know where to go from here on getting back X

    Quote Originally Posted by Victory37 View Post
    just now your post, i don't know what to make of it either.. haven't heard anything else from her since that text, and it was totally out of the blue so.. i just didnt answer her back..

    thanks for the suggestion but i really dont even want to go there with her, and yes her friend is already engaged so i really have no idea why she would do that.. its either she thinks im totally over her and its ok to just talk about, or?? who knows
    It's a shit test buddy. She's testing how well you're doing with this break-up. Send her a pic of the ring!
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    Default Re: Help, dont know where to go from here on getting back X

    really a Sh1t Test?? you think so?? idk man


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