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Thread: Help, dont know where to go from here on getting back X

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    Default Re: Help, dont know where to go from here on getting back X

    thanks dude, im about to walk out of my house.. here we gooo

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    Default Re: Help, dont know where to go from here on getting back X

    well what a great time, she was so hot it was insane...she immediately commented on how muscular i have gotten and how i looked great.. perfect for me, i didnt compliment her until the very end of the night.. it went well, when we left she hugged goodbye and i wanted to kiss but i didnt..

    kind of want to wait for her to go in, as i was driving home she sent me a text " " i am assuming that means ' you're on the right track '..thoughts?

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    Default Re: Help, dont know where to go from here on getting back X

    Well done! You're in! Keep going. I'm curious: how many days of no contact was that before she contacted you to meet up? and how long has it been since the break up?

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    Default Re: Help, dont know where to go from here on getting back X

    thanks for the encouragement yeah i went to bed pretty happy, feeling of hope.

    well it was weird, i stopped all contact 4 weeks ago, i didn't initiate any of it. i made her contact me.. she did, and it would only be like every 2 days or something, then it started to get more and more frequent, starting to call about random stuff, and just stupid questions.. its all here in the posts the timeline.. but to meet up again, it had been 3 weeks since i last saw her, and then she just randomly texted me to meet up.. kinda weird, but it felt great her asking and not me.. also we broke up june 30th.. lived together, and the relationship was for 14 months.. so yeah, i want this girl back very bad!

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    Default Re: Help, dont know where to go from here on getting back X

    Thanks for the summary. If you keep working on your inner game, you are almost guaranteed to have her back now. Congrats and good luck.

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    Default Re: Help, dont know where to go from here on getting back X

    well i feel like i got the wind knocked out of me..saturday she calls me and im out to eat so i say call you later, she says ok, i call later, then she says she's going with her g/f out to eat, and she will call me later, i say ok.

    no call, then the next day ( today ) she calls me and says sorry i didn't call you back last night, i went out after dinner to the bar.. she went with her girlfriend, so she says " some girl came up to us to talk and then brought us back to her group of 10 who were also students where we were so we stayed and talked till 2:30 am " im like ok, then i immediately said like well i'll talk to you later and ended the convo.

    WHY THE HECK IS SHE TELLING ME SHE DID THIS?? no girl approaches girls to bring them abck to a group unless a guy told her too.. so im assuming she probably gave SOME guy her number at least, and who knows what...so after friday night when i had all that momentum and thought things were going good, she does this??

    she acted like nothing, but i know she told me that to Sh1t Test me.. why else would she do that?? seriously, it made me so angry and mad and i still am, guess what, back to NC she can contact me till she's blue in the face i am going to tell her next week sometime to meet up and tell her how it is. i am going to explain to her how i cannot be her friend and how i think its ridiculous it has gotten to this point. any thoughts?

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    Default Re: Help, dont know where to go from here on getting back X

    quick update: so later after i was cold to her and ended the convo after she told me that, she called me later that evening with questions with the internet not working.. so i helped her, and then the convo ended..

    next morning i wake up to a text " enjoy the day!! throat hurts again " and then i don't text her for a few hours and say " i want to take you out this weekend and i'll drive to your town, sound good ? " i wrote her this because my plan is to just lay the cards out this week and tell her whats up.. im sick of this back and forth BS..anyways she hasn't responded, so then i called later, and left a voicemail.. still heard nothing back, this isn't like her at ALL..

    I have a gut feeling that she met someone that saturday night and I think he has been gaming her hard which is why I didn't hear from her much today except for in the morning.. I dont really have much to go on other than a gut feeling, but really guys I am so sick of this, but I love her so much, especially after seeing her again, my lord,.

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    Default Re: Help, dont know where to go from here on getting back X

    Pump the breaks. Listen to yourself, your coming off as desperate and needy. Your broken up, so what if she talks to another guy? You can't let it bother you. If it does your not being an Alpha. Take a deep breath and go talk to some other girls. It sucks I know, I'm in the same predicament but I don't let it bother me anymore and went on dates and closed with other women. There are other girls out there for you that are hotter and treat you nicer, never forget that

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    Default Re: Help, dont know where to go from here on getting back X

    i understand, i never tell her any of this, i just vent on the forum bro..but if she talks to another guy, why talk to me?? just leave me the F*** alone and let me move on.. i had control of this and thought I was right where I wanted her especially after friday, but then you can read the above posts and find out.. its just annoying, not really know what to do from here

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    Default Re: Help, dont know where to go from here on getting back X

    I hear you trust me. Just lay back and wait for her to talk to you again. If she does then just act indifferent. If she wants to work it out she will let you know. For now we have to sit back and enjoy the single life


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