My Question about this girl:
She was my girlfriend for 1,5 year until we broke up in august last year.
March this year we began seeing each other again, and I was was in the state "I can get better than her now".. I felt my standards had become higher.
She called me everyday and asked if I wanted to come over. So I basically went out talking to girls every night and crashed at her place like 3-5 in the morning, had sex and the next morning she went to work.
I actually started to like her really much again. She treated me really good, I could do my thing and get all the sex and love I wanted from her. She called me everyday.
And she did say that it would be nice also to do things together in the daytime.
Then one night, about 2 weeks ago she was frustrated and wanted the "Why don't you want me to be your girlfriend" - talk. She tried to make me jealous by saying she had sex another guy yesterday (even though yesterday, she texted me that she was with her girls, and hung up when I called)
Then I became jealous and mad, and later send her some angry messages, because -
- why did she use that jealousy trick? Not fair
- she lied to me yesterday about what she was doing
- if she wanted to be my girfriend, then why the heck is she farking another guy while I'm sending sweet messages, for once?
The next day I showed up at her job - she finished and we talked a bit. Then we went to her place and had sex again.
The nex day I texted her "Lets hang out later" - no answer.
I texted her "Come to *KulÝr bar. I miss you" - no answer. *a club in my city
(Thursday and friday)
I showed up at her job and said something like "Whats up", "busy day huh?", let's hang out when you finish work" and stuff like that, in a non needy, happy way. But she rejected me saying "I'm not sure" and "I don't think so" with confidence in her voice.
I was thinking "what is the problem? She wanted me as her boyfriend, and now when I show signals that I WANT her, she suddenly like ignore me?"
(Friday and saturday)
Whe discussed a bit via Facebook about our situation. Apparently she was mad about my behaviour towards her last saturday. I said "sorry", but didn't give in to her idea, that I "owed her an apology". I mean, I was jealous and showed some vulnerability and sended her 2 mad text messages while I was drunk...
But saturday next morning she asked "Where are you now?"
Later that day I came to her place and we talked a bit. She was closen up, but I managed to open her up, hugged and kissed. She said she wanted to "think about things".
I met her radomly on the street. We were hugging, smalltalking.. she asked "Did you think about it?". "What did you find out?".
But SHE just told me 2 days ago that SHE wanted to "Think".. so I don't understand what she is communicating.
No doubt she was happy to see me, but not happy enough.
Note: since saturday I have been non needy and in a good mood the two times we met. Like "I want her but don't NEED her"
My question: IS she really doubting wether or not she wanna see me
does she want me to continually show her that I really want her (in a non needy way), because she feels hurt?
What do you think?