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    Default Need help, ex broke no contact, should I initiate conversation next or...?

    Ok, so me and my gf broke up whilst spending 3 months away from each other whilst she is in Australia, she broke no contact a week ago and spoke to me on Skype and she's online now and I really wana talk to her? Is this a good idea or should I wait for her to initiate again? Cheers

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    Default Re: Need help, ex broke no contact, should I initiate conversation next or.

    We'll need more background info for this.

    -Why do you have a no contact arrangement?
    -What's the situation between you and your girlfriend?
    -What did she say when she broke the no contact rule?

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    Default Re: Need help, ex broke no contact, should I initiate conversation next or.

    Basically she is in Australia ATM as she is working there for the summer, she broke up with me about 3 weeks ago because she said she doesn't feel the same anymore, sooo the no contact was just because I refused to chase her and keep trying to get in touch, soo about a week and a half ago she contacted me on Skype and we chatted.
    She said she misses me etc and I was quite calm about it just said I don't really see why we split and stuff, anyway she contacted me again on Saturday and we just had a chat about normal stuff and some casual flirting.
    Soo I was wondering if I should wait for her to contact me or if it's acceptable for me to try talk to her? Cheers

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    Default Re: Need help, ex broke no contact, should I initiate conversation next or.

    Don't initiate contact with her. You're doing the right thing. She's contacting you because you don't seem to be that affected by the break up and aren't chasing her. This intrigues her. Let her come to you. In the meanwhile, you should just move on with your life and meet some new women. Maybe she'll start chasing you in a while.

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    Default Re: Need help, ex broke no contact, should I initiate conversation next or.

    Ok cheers, yeah that's what I've been doing.......discover ed I can't close for shit with girls I meet ATM, dunno whether maybe its cus subconsciously I still just wana be with her :/

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