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    Default Sleep with other women while trying to get ex back

    Is it a good idea? Personally I don't really think so, just kissing would be enough to forget about the ex for a while, or it could even be going too far.
    I don't know, your thoughts here guys.

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    Default Re: Sleep with other women while trying to get ex back

    I am thinking of the same thing. If my ex slept with someone else while I still had feelings for her, then I definitely would want to sleep with someone else. Just to get even I guess

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    Default Re: Sleep with other women while trying to get ex back

    it's a slippery slope. i don't recommend doing things in reaction to other things. take charge. do what you want to do because you want to do it. don't compromise your principals over a girl. she doesn't want that. and when she's gone, you can at least respect yourself. it's the worst kind of one-upsmanship because you're the only one keeping score.

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    Default Re: Sleep with other women while trying to get ex back

    Quote Originally Posted by ProtonCannon View Post
    Don't compromise your principles over a girl. She doesn't want that. and when she's gone, you can at least respect yourself.
    You have my respect. One of the best things I've read in a long time.

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    Default Re: Sleep with other women while trying to get ex back

    I think you should do what you would normally do if you were single.. meaning sleep with other women.

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    Default Re: Sleep with other women while trying to get ex back

    this is the worst part for me. the thought of my ex sleeping with someone else right now hurts so bad, the intimate part of her being given to another guy? omg, it makes me want to RAGE.. i feel like if i did it, whether she cared or not, and we do get back together eventually, i'll come back and bring more baggage back to her. i want to be clean for her if we do get back together, only have last been touched by her, this shows how much you care for her. if she messes around with other guys, you will always have the upper hand if you get back together..but also, if she does get with other guys, i might never take her back even if she wants me.. who knows, this sucks

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    Default Re: Sleep with other women while trying to get ex back

    yeah. sucks a lot. come vent here so you don't go and do something you'll regret. you should pick up and sleep with other women when you're back in a healthy state of mind. and there's plenty of time for that. take care of this first. all you'll be doing having sex with one chick while pining for another is muddy the water. but you know yourself better than anyone and you already know what you need to do. just hold on to your balls and follow through. it almost doesn't matter what you do - sleep with other women, don't sleep with them - it matters if it's coming from a healthy place or desperate place.

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    Default Re: Sleep with other women while trying to get ex back

    Try to get over your ex...and just go for other girls. When your ex see that you are living your life regardless if she is around or not that will get her curious. The more she sees you with other girls and that you don't care about her anymore..the more she will regret having let you go! But at the end of the day your happiness must come from with in!

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    Default Re: Sleep with other women while trying to get ex back

    Quote Originally Posted by Victory37 View Post
    this is the worst part for me. the thought of my ex sleeping with someone else right now hurts so bad, the intimate part of her being given to another guy? omg, it makes me want to RAGE.. i feel like if i did it, whether she cared or not, and we do get back together eventually, i'll come back and bring more baggage back to her. i want to be clean for her if we do get back together, only have last been touched by her, this shows how much you care for her. if she messes around with other guys, you will always have the upper hand if you get back together..but also, if she does get with other guys, i might never take her back even if she wants me.. who knows, this sucks
    I feel you bro, those are the cons about NC, she might be seeing someone else and you'll never know. I think I'll wait till enough time has passed and if she still doesn't come back to me I'll have to start thinking about moving on, but for now I'm not thinking about other women.

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    Default Re: Sleep with other women while trying to get ex back

    Quote Originally Posted by ProtonCannon View Post
    yeah. sucks a lot. come vent here so you don't go and do something you'll regret. you should pick up and sleep with other women when you're back in a healthy state of mind. and there's plenty of time for that. take care of this first. all you'll be doing having sex with one chick while pining for another is muddy the water. but you know yourself better than anyone and you already know what you need to do. just hold on to your balls and follow through. it almost doesn't matter what you do - sleep with other women, don't sleep with them - it matters if it's coming from a healthy place or desperate place.
    WORD. That's it, so much truth.


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