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    Default Re: break up after 2.5years; want suggestions

    the reason men are prone to oneitis is because girls have so much attention on them all the time from men.. especially hot ones! think about it, they constantly have guys talking to them these days now that facebook and every other social network is involved.. they have constant reassurance and attention, guys dont. we are the ones giving the attention, lets be real here fellas..

    1000, im with you, i am not ready to tell her to back off, because i love her and dont want to do that yet..my plan is in about 2 weeks to ask to meet up and then go from there..i might tell her then i need some space, or i might go out this weekend meet someone and start taking pics for facebook and try to spark some jealousy.. it has been over 2 months for me and i still feel the same about her, i think about her constantly and miss having sex too.. i look at a pic of her and all the memories flood in.. it takes all my might to not text her or call her when i think about her..

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    Default Re: break up after 2.5years; want suggestions

    My advice still stands you need space! i can tell its your own fears of losing her that is stopping you. If yous are meant to be she will return. What you are doing now is putting yourself in the freindzone. I have made every mistake and i wish i listened to people when they told me.

    If she wants you she wil let you know. Tellher you need space delete her of fb.twitter etc. Let curiosity get the better of her. She wont return til you do.

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    Default Re: break up after 2.5years; want suggestions

    Yes, when this is all said and done it should be your decision to get back with her or not. But right now it is hers. She knows she can have you back at the snap of a finger, which is the problem. Go out and do things for yourself. Show her that you do not need her to have a fun life. You need to keep your dignity and that you know, like an actor or someone in your life. Would he be spending so much time worried about getting back some girl? NO. If she truly wants you back she will somehow show you. NO CONTACT. If it is not meant to be then it isn't meant to be.

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    Default Re: break up after 2.5years; want suggestions

    Ok. Just wanted to say thanks for sticking around in this thread guys.

    She hasn't contacted me in two days. I think it might be a while. I suspect it's because she asked me something on fb the last time we had a chat (three days ago) and I didn't reply. I don't think I will. As far as she's concerned I've disappeared from her reality.

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    Default Re: break up after 2.5years; want suggestions

    guys i am freaking like missing her so badly lately idk wtf, i had a grip like last week, but now i am like having so many urges to text her ' i miss you , i want to see you ' etc.. all the things i SHOULDNT do, now i am not doing them ( im not stupid!! ) but i am really tempted too, it sucks really bad. I want her to want me soon

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    Default Re: break up after 2.5years; want suggestions

    Victory, go get busy with self-improvement stuff.

    So she actually texted me today again just after I thought that it will be a while. It's almost midnight here so I'll wait before I text her back.

    Her message reads ''. . . I started that new class yesterday and I did well I enjoyed it. You? How are ya? Good night xx''

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    Default Re: break up after 2.5years; want suggestions

    been doing self improvement, im pretty much good as can be physically and mentally, besides her.. its been 2 days since she contacted me so im sure i'll hear from her tommorow

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    Default Re: break up after 2.5years; want suggestions

    I was thinking about the message she sent yesterday night. Sounds really friendly and genuine. Ends with kisses; am I getting close to the beautiful sound of an ''I miss you!''?

    Not very likely but maybe a little. I still haven't responded.

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    Default Re: break up after 2.5years; want suggestions

    I find it interesting that in the text that read ". . . I started that new class yesterday and I did well I enjoyed it. You? How are ya? Good night xx''. The part where she says "You?" and in the next question "YOU" becomes "YA?". I can tell she misses you, but at the same time she's trying to keep things light-hearted. I'd say something like "I'm glad you like your class! And don't worry I'm doing great"

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    Default Re: break up after 2.5years; want suggestions

    To be fair, I translated that from my native language. I used the word 'ya' because that is precisely the feeling she seems to be portraying: she misses me but not being too heavy in it. A better translation would have been 'How's life?' but it's basically the same thing.

    She does miss me. And from what she had told me last Saturday (the day we made out) she wasn't doing much with her time, just sitting in bed (the behaviour of depressed people). I replied that I'm really good. Been busy, and actually looking forward to have a nice break. I'm happy she's done well in her class.

    I also like the fact that she begun with '. . .' as if to say: why aren't you contacting me?? but ended with 'xx'.


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