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    Default Re: break up after 2.5years; want suggestions

    I was unaware that it was translated. You're doing extremely well dude! You're becoming the prize and soon she'll start thinking twice.

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    Default Re: break up after 2.5years; want suggestions

    Thanks.

    So that text that I wanted to send her about me wanting space is, for the moment, unnecessary. I have grabbed my space and really pushed away without verbalizing it. She knows this and that text she sent is evidence. I continue with NC.

    My friends and I will be putting up some fun pictures on fb this weekend, I wonder if that will have any effect!

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    Default Re: break up after 2.5years; want suggestions

    It will...she may not respond to them or ask you about them but they are a sign to her that you have a life outside of her and (hopefully) she'll see this and realize that she doesnt have as much influence over you as she thought she did.

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    You know, I keep wondering how long will she keep initiating contact for.

    I think I should text her in 2 weeks or so and take it from there. In the meantime self-development to the max! (not for her, obviously, for myself). I found a funny pic of us on my old laptop and I might send it to her before I try to get her to meet up. It's a pic of us making funny faces at each other lol.. it's cute and bound to make her smile (considering that we always were and still are on good terms).

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    Default Re: break up after 2.5years; want suggestions

    So I replied to her fb message 6 days late - it was a while since I logged into fb and I updated some stuff on my profile. I replied to her with a simple ':P'.

    She replied some hours later (it was Saturday) she replied at around 2am so I assume she went out with some friends and replied when she got home. What is weird is that I could've sworn that she never switched on her laptop on Saturdays when she got home after midnight. Anyway her reply was a tease - she joked about how my new profile pic was too dark.

    I replied in the morning: ''you have plenty of clearer pictures of me to look at :P''
    her: ''But this one is sooo dark! :P''

    And that was that. I'm starting to believe that she is getting better i.e. getting over me which makes me kind of insecure. So 3 things: my inner game is not where it should be; I'm reading way too much into her little fb activity and also, I am not ready for a relationship with her if she still has this kind of hold on me, albeit a small one.

    I am glad I never got to send the text about needing space. I've read in Shark's blog that it is much more powerful if the reason for NC is ambiguous. He also said that if she never contacts you after the break up, their isn't anything to work on/salvage. So, at least, I have both these things going for me.

    My new plan is to keep no contact some more. When (if) she contacts me I'll introduce some fun teasing + light flirting. My mom's birthday is coming up this month and I might tell her to help me pick a gift out for her (like we did last year). If we do go out I'll make sure to be mentally prepared but also to be working on my game with other girls. I hope that if we do go out, I'll have a date with another girl after that. If she finds out, it will introduce some competitive anxiety for her especially if the friendly date with the ex goes as planned (ie she gets to see a fun, more alpha, me).

    Thoughts?

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    Default Re: break up after 2.5years; want suggestions

    alpha up bro, im right there w/ ya

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    Default Re: break up after 2.5years; want suggestions

    Yeah. One of the things I'll be doing for confidence is get the cold approach down but I'm struggling a lot with it. And the more I struggle, the worse I feel.

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    Default Re: break up after 2.5years; want suggestions

    Update: She texted me this morning with ''Boo! boo! boo!'' (something we used to do for fun - pretend we're frightening each other).

    I replied about 30 minutes later: ''Hey man!''
    Her: I had a dream that you were walking hand in hand with two kids xD
    Me: haha, you always have interesting dreams. Who were the kids?
    Her: lol I assumed they were your students. You looked so content!
    -- a bit later --
    Me: Yeah, I'm gonna go do _____ babe.
    and: My students are fond of me!

    Whatever you take from this conversation, one thing is sure - it is soooo on! Or not?

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    Default Re: break up after 2.5years; want suggestions

    Hmmmmmm I think she knows she still got you where she wants. She knows fine well you still want her , so why would she want you? That's always the consideration. Your putting a time limit on it like saying you'll leave her for two weeks

    Shark advises that you never look back. No assumptions are to be made. You need to really try and move on. If it comes back round then all is good! But she ain't ever go a come now all your doing is freind zoning yourself. I know from experience I was given advice and ignored it only listened to the parts I wanted to.

    If she wants to sort it out she will let you know. Untill that day. Let her go and live your life. I bet in 6 months you'll come back here and think "lol I wasted so much time pulling levers and pushing buttons"

    All the best man.
    Striker x

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    Default Re: break up after 2.5years; want suggestions

    Quote Originally Posted by 1000stepss View Post
    Yeah. One of the things I'll be doing for confidence is get the cold approach down but I'm struggling a lot with it. And the more I struggle, the worse I feel.
    Cold approach is tough. One suggestion that I read recently from a poster on this site recommends that you just approach for practice giving the woman a compliment and walking away. I think it's a great way to just get used to approaching first without throwing in all of the other stuff. Just walk up to a beautiful woman and tell her how stunning she is with a smile and walk away. Women love compliments anyway so chances are you'll be making her day and she won't be creeped out. Go approach at least 20 women tomorrow for practice. Btw, it's good to see you shifting from trying to get your ex back to figuring out how to pick up other women
    “The great mistake is to anticipate the outcome of the engagement; you ought not to be thinking of whether it ends in victory or defeat. Let nature take its course, and your tools will strike at the right moment.” -Bruce Lee


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