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    Default Re: break up after 2.5years; want suggestions

    what exactly is the cold approach? i am curious about this subect..

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    Default Re: break up after 2.5years; want suggestions

    Quote Originally Posted by Victory37 View Post
    what exactly is the cold approach? i am curious about this subect..
    Just click on the link that you created with your question. C'mon man.
    “The great mistake is to anticipate the outcome of the engagement; you ought not to be thinking of whether it ends in victory or defeat. Let nature take its course, and your tools will strike at the right moment.” -Bruce Lee

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    Default Re: break up after 2.5years; want suggestions

    Quote Originally Posted by striker12 View Post
    Hmmmmmm I think she knows she still got you where she wants. She knows fine well you still want her , so why would she want you? That's always the consideration. Your putting a time limit on it like saying you'll leave her for two weeks

    Shark advises that you never look back. No assumptions are to be made. You need to really try and move on. If it comes back round then all is good! But she ain't ever go a come now all your doing is freind zoning yourself. I know from experience I was given advice and ignored it only listened to the parts I wanted to.

    If she wants to sort it out she will let you know. Untill that day. Let her go and live your life. I bet in 6 months you'll come back here and think "lol I wasted so much time pulling levers and pushing buttons"

    All the best man.
    Striker x
    Thanks. However I don't see how she has me where she wants. She might assume that she can have me back but I think it's clear to her that I am happy with moving on. I've shown her (and myself) the ability to not initiate contact; I never pleaded or begged and I never insulted her for what happened. I think that this shows value from my part. And I was quite confident and fun during the occasional conversations.

    I wish I saw your post earlier though because it made me think. I actually texted her tonight lol. I texted ''boobie!'' and she laughed hard at it, then started some banter and friendly fun conversation. Reason for this was that I want the NC of the next few days to be even more powerful (push/pull!). After that I was planning on telling her to meet me where she'll get the privilege to witness the awesome me I should've always been.

    I also dread the friend-zone. It happened to me in all my teen years, though, and I don't see it here. Maybe I'm misjudging the situation because I'm so invested but tbh it looks to me like she's just keeping in touch out of genuine feelings. Remember how much she cried when we met accidentally last week and we also made out. I believe that we're just sincerely fond of each other even though she feels the need to ''find herself''. (This is also why I texted ''boobie'' to break the pattern and initiate myself, it's lightly sexual and not simply 'friendly').

    Now even though the feelings are 'genuine' I'm not sitting around waiting for her to come back. I have a busy life. I do want (and am looking for) the opportunities to date around even if for a while.. I know it will either make her jealous or open my eyes to a better future or both.

    why would she want you?
    Cos I'm awesome and she knows it. I'm not just saying it, it really is her loss if I'm not in her life. (I also feel it would be my loss if she isn't part of mine, but I can live with that).

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    Default Re: break up after 2.5years; want suggestions

    but any advise, concerns or suggestions are very welcome.

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    Default Re: break up after 2.5years; want suggestions

    I think you are too invested in this one female! honestly i was like this awhile ago but you just need to get to the FURKKKKKKKKKKK this stage.

    Go out and date other girls Trust me on this one dont make the same mistakes i have made!

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    Default Re: break up after 2.5years; want suggestions

    Yeah like I said (or tried to), I won't go back together with her for a LTR without having dated other girls first. That should put her into perspective.

    What stage?

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    Default Re: break up after 2.5years; want suggestions

    ok steps, saund, lui, everyone who has been following our situations on each others own threads, i have an update on my thread that applies to everyone and my new philosophy i want to share with all of you

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    Default Re: break up after 2.5years; want suggestions

    lol guys! She just texted me about a girl I added on fb 'looking slutty'. hah!

    What would you say? I was planning on simply not replying.

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    Default Re: break up after 2.5years; want suggestions

    dude do NOT reply!! now is perfect to freeze her out, that is a total bait from her dude.. she wants you to reply and justify why she isn't a slut, DO NOT DO IT..

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    Default Re: break up after 2.5years; want suggestions

    I just told her that she has nothing to worry about and that no girl I make friends with can ever compare to her cos I know she's the one.

    I'm kidding. :P

    I haven't replied and don't plan to. Obviously I'm happy though, happy that she's somewhat jealous. It says a lot.


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