Re: break up after 2.5years; want suggestions
You're right man. I've wasted alot of time and energy in my own life being heartbroken over women. There were months where I would do nothing but sit in the house feeling sorry for myself, crying over an ex. It's pretty farkin pathetic in my opinion.
Originally Posted by 1000steps
One time, this hot girl called me while I was going through the pain of a break-up and she wanted to hang out. I told her no and made up some excuse for her not to come over. She had the most perfect tits that I have ever seen and I told her no! If that's not lame, I don't know what is!
I'm 35, so I've been through this a few times now. One thing that I can tell you is that it doesn't get any easier. This won't be the first time that you go through the excruciating pain of heartbreak and it probably won't be the last. All you can do is learn how to deal with it better.
You can get over a woman quicker by going complete nc. Then you set course for the eye of the storm and take it head on. You have to go through the pain, not around it. It sounds like you're sick and tired of being sick and tired.
I would suggest you treat this woman like you would a drug addiction. If you were addicted to heroin and you wanted to stop, would you keep it as your Facebook friend? Would you go to a party when you know heroin is going to be there? I know you want her back but what is that costing you in the long run? The best thing you can do to get her back is to get over her.
“The great mistake is to anticipate the outcome of the engagement; you ought not to be thinking of whether it ends in victory or defeat. Let nature take its course, and your tools will strike at the right moment.” -Bruce Lee