Hey guys right I've read alot about pua etc, and have just recently split up with my ex of 3 years ill run through the details soon. Basically I want to take this opportunity to develop perfect game to get her back and share it with the community, I will be posting as i go and i need as much advice from the community as possible.
Basically this is where it all started I found out she was lying to me about going out with her freinds. I really didn't care but i thought I'd catch her out. I called her then my phone died before she answered (i was on a train) after getting home i charged my phone up and get a voicemail it goes a little like this "i'm out with my mates I just want a night with them, just leave me alone" obviously I'm confused to hell, I always actively encourage her to go out with her mates. The next day I call her and then get told that she cant do this anymore its just to much for her. All i say is you loved me at one point so you can atleast have the decency to say this to my face. After saying that she agrees to meet me the next day.
Well i meet her after work i ask her where she wants to meet, get the usual replies which are blunt (to be expected) we end up meeting in a little park area outside a church where we can sit down and talk. She starts crying and won't look me in the eye. She then goes on to tell me that she feels trapped explains that were only 20 and basically says its to serious and shes getting freaked out . I then Explain to her that im not as deep in this relationship as she thinks. I get told that she feels trapped and can't tell me what she wants like when she goes out with her freinds, her reasons for this are that she doesn't want to hurt my feelings, i counteracted by saying i dont care what she does and then get the comeback "but thats not what i think" well after chatting through it for a little bit she says she feels trapped now like she cant break up (check mate im screwed) i say to her that she can so she does.. We talk for a little bit i shake her shoulder smile and tell her this doesn't need to be sad and awkward we can still have a laugh.
I brought up the fact that she is a best mate to me and she feels the same way. I explained that I love the fact we could chill as best mates and then hug kiss etc.. We talk about giving each other space for a bit and agree on a week of no contact. We then arrange a date to meet and see how things are, now heres the real interesting bit i said do you wanna do this as a meet up as freinds or a date. She replied a date bingo i think I'm still in at this point shes stopped crying and is looking me in the eyes we have a few jokes i do abit of Kino shes smiling and laughing. I asked her if shes gunna be seeing guys during the break she replies no and then asks me i also say no. I say so what does this mean then are we together or broken up, she says were not together but were not fully broken up. After this i say im looking forward to the date and get the reply "Dont get your hopes up" i said im not i just like dates. After this i explain that i'm going with an open mind and she agrees shes doing tye same. Now guys this is where you come in should i meet up for this date on the 27th when should i contact her with details for it, and also i need some tips for solid game. I'd also like reviews on what iv'e done thanks guys sorry for the long post thought details would help.