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    Default Re: Opinions and experiences men will return after a breakup

    Yea! I had worked a lot on myself before I got into that LTR. She was crazy about me! Then I became crazy about her and poof..

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    Default Re: Opinions and experiences men will return after a breakup

    Yep thats what happened to me she was nuts about me. Me not so much about her untill about a year ago. To cut along story short I have now deleted her from every stoical network site and removed all the junk from my house. It is now time to spread my wings and really start to fly! If she returns is an uncertainty but one I doubt very much. I think women are to set in their decision to change. But always remember even if she doesn't come back think of all the things you have learnt about yourself during the break! Like me I would never have found pua tips and joined the gym!


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    Default Re: Opinions and experiences men will return after a breakup

    yeah, im with all of you there too, i became beta and just did anything and everything for her. i wasn't about her either at first, she came at me, and then somewhere along the line I became crazy for her. I had no idea what beta and alpha even was until I came here, now i know better..to stay on topic, I also have an update on my situation on my original thread, ( saund/striker )

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    Default Re: Opinions and experiences men will return after a breakup

    oh my brothers Same with me, i lost my ex few months ago after 2 years of relationship and now she will probably engage to another guy ... But i become alpha, i moved on, i realized that i m better then she is, she is not worth of me ... now i m dating another women

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    Default Re: Opinions and experiences men will return after a breakup

    Seems like the two year old relationship for young people is a very common occurrence. I'm curious, though, are there any success stories of getting her back for good?

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    Default Re: Opinions and experiences men will return after a breakup

    yeah, im 25, x is 21 ( will be 22 in a month ) .. considered young.. has any guy gotten his x back after she dumped him, and initially what did you do besides nc?

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    Default Re: Opinions and experiences men will return after a breakup

    I am 22 and she is 21. Oh and it was about a 2 year relationship. This is very common to happen with a girl who has recently turned 21 I have found out. My ex turned 21 a month before the breakup. I believe its an issue of becoming confused on what they want. They go out with friends and start seeing other guys and start to wonder what it would be like to be single.

    It's funny because my ex and I have actually seen this happen to another couple we were mutual friends with. We would both talk about it like it would never happen to us and how much of a b$*#* she was for doing that out of no where to him. And who would've guessed, she did the same thing. My goal out of this whole thing is to stay on the high road and not to give her more reason to her decision. I have not once showed emotion since he initial days of the breakup and don't plan to either.

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    Default Re: Opinions and experiences men will return after a breakup

    I've broken up with women and I've been broken up with. From what I've noticed so far in relationships, the moment that you love them more then they love you, they run for the hills! I think it's just human nature and people are programmed to want what they can't have. Women are programmed a little differently, but both sexes are guilty of this shallow behavior. When men slack off and act like beta's, women are programmed to leave and look for a higher value male to have baby's with.

    The best thing you can do is try to catch yourself when you're acting beta in a relationship and change course. I'm also guilty of slacking off and acting beta in my relationship. Just yesterday I went to see my therapist and I explained some of the troubles that I'm now having with my girlfriend. He pointed out some of the things that I was doing wrong, like letting her push my boundaries.

    The other day she wanted me to go and get her food and I told her "I'm tired of getting you food when there is stuff in the fridge. Go get it yourself." She then offered me a blow-job if I did so of course I said yeah! When I came back I was patiently waiting for my beej and then her sister called needing a favor, so she had to leave. No biggy I thought, I'll get it later. She comes home and isn't in the mood...

    By the next day it was like she totally forgot our deal and I just harbored resentment instead of confronting her. Well to make a long story short when I did confront her and have that alpha convo suggested by my therapist she wanted to blow me--right then and there! You have to keep your pimp hand strong in relationships. You can't be afraid to call them out on thier sh1t. It actually turns them on when you do. It's a constant struggle though and women will alway try to test your boundaries and Sh1t Test. It never ends so don't get comfortable!
    “The great mistake is to anticipate the outcome of the engagement; you ought not to be thinking of whether it ends in victory or defeat. Let nature take its course, and your tools will strike at the right moment.” -Bruce Lee

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    Default Re: Opinions and experiences men will return after a breakup

    That is absolutely right. The word I would use is complacent. Never become complacent - keep moving forward.

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    Default Re: Opinions and experiences men will return after a breakup

    Yep I agree with you all they will never return untill your 100percent ok it most cases. I just regret showing major emotion for a few months although I've been string on nc for 2 months now


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