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    Default Re: Opinions and experiences men will return after a breakup

    Lol before I deleted her of all social sites she would always talk to me pritty much evertime i seen her like recently past few weeks. Seen her tonight at the gym for first time since lol i choped her off Did she talk to me, did she look at me. Did she furkkkkkkkk lol ignored me walked right past me and left lol.


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    Default Re: Opinions and experiences men will return after a breakup

    dude that makes no sense?? she look at you ? im assuming you meant, she didnt look at you, talk to you, and walked right past you? lol.. if thats the case, then that sucks.. its amazing how you can have so many memories with someone and be intimate only for it to be that way now..

    still haven't heard anything from my X since i didn't return her call yesterday, i thought today she would at least text, but nothing yet. im wondering how long she can hold out before contacting me with a ' why aren't u talking to me ' attitude.. we'll see, Goodluck bro!

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    Default Re: Opinions and experiences men will return after a breakup

    I would avoid all places that you know she goes. If you conveniently walk into her often then that means you are trying to see her. And she will probably pick up on this, not good.

    Victory,

    My ex is a girl with a lot of pride, maybe even somewhat of an ego. The only time that she was warm towards me was right after the breakup before I told her I needed space. Then she suddenly acted like she didn't care if we kept in contact or not. I see this as her pride kicking in. "It doesn't matter to me if we are friends or not" she said after she knew I was going cold towards her. So why was she contacting me about random stuff after the break up? After this she acts like she is completely over it. CONSTANTLY posting new facebook photos of her having so much fun. I'm sorry but if you are truly having a great time at a bar, then why are taking out your phone to update where you are, who you are with, and to take 20 pictures every night she is out. I refuse to react to this crap. I am just acting like my normal self would. Not constantly updating my facebook, and not telling the world what I am doing every second. She is not being herself and there is something to say for that.

    In the meantime I'm not giving her any clue of what I am doing. I have been reinventing myself, for myself. I have bought new clothes, I plan to sell my outdated truck and get a newer car and I have been working out. And dating of course. So when we do finally see each other, probably at this wedding, she will suddenly realize that I have actually been ok. To me, this will be powerful. And not in the sense of trying to get my ex back, but just to show her that I am doing fine without her. Because at this point I'm pretty sure I don't want her back. I guess I just want her to realize that I am living a good life without her.

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    Default Re: Opinions and experiences men will return after a breakup

    I can't not go to the gym I go on an evening afterwork and as does she sometimes. You see victory you may think its a bad thing but it is actually good it takes more effort and emotion to totally ignore and blank someone than waving or saying hi like she use to.

    If me chopping her of Facebook didn't bother her she still would have said hello like she usually would have done,

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    Default Re: Opinions and experiences men will return after a breakup

    good point striker, and saund, i am jealous you get to re invent yourself and then see her..that is like awesome. im re inventing myself, but i dont know if and when i'll get to see her..bro's i am having such a hard time not contacting her especially since today is the start of the weekend.. you know it SUCKS :-\ but i am hanging in there

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    Default Re: Opinions and experiences men will return after a breakup

    Anything like that is a sign wether it be good or bad. Remember if they are indifferent they would not ignore you, blank you or throw sh1ttests. if they were indifferent they wouldn't take time to bother. That's what I've found out when thinking back to freinds relationships etc. indifferent is bad news! If she hates you she still has to care to hate you. Thats my take on this anyway.

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    Default Re: Opinions and experiences men will return after a breakup

    I don't know I it's a good thing we are forced to see each other or not. It definitely disrupted this whole no contact thing for me. In my case my ex does seem to be indifferent towards me, which is hard to admit. Ya she was doing some shit tests before but she really hasn't contacted since I told her to back off. I know she is confused about what she wants but I have this gut feeling that she is over it. The thing is, I could get better. It's just the whole rejection thing that's eating me up. I was the "catch" in our relationship and the moment she thought she could get better she left. And so the misery continues right when I thought I was over it.

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    Default Re: Opinions and experiences men will return after a breakup

    saund, that sucks, i don't know if you saw the latest on my thread but my x has been running me around too.. she has initiated all contact since i started the NC, and this weekend she had to remind me that she's alive and well.. its all in my thread.. but yeah, it sucks when they aren't chasing us yet, so i feel you.. whether you can get better or not doesn't matter, she's the one you want.

    i can get better too, but this is the girl I want. she isn't a girl to go to bars/clubs, drink, smoke, do drugs, is in law school, she is a 9, not been with alot of guys..Not to mention, being single and going out is such a drag, i hate all of it. i went out friday and saturday night, saw what was out there, and to be honest im over it, im looking for the wife type who can help progress my life, i will not find her in a bar/club guaranteed.

    rejection does suck, and the reason i got dumped was because i had made so many white lies to cover my arse about stupid things, that eventually she just had enough.. i was involved in illegal things and what not ( you can figure the rest out ) but if i could rewind the clock I would drop all of that. i am alpha now, so at least i have that going, but still i would be with her in a heart beat if i could.

    i have read these forums over and over again, and most of the relationship rewind stuff besides what they want money for, and i dont even know if it works. i don't know if i'll ever get her back. i know i can be ' over ' it, but i dont think i will ever be comfortable with her being with another guy.. i looked at a new pic of her last night and all i could think about was this girl 3 months ago was telling me how she wanted to marry me and was never happier, now i don't have her. just those thoughts crushed me.. i doubt that will ever go away to be honest, i'll never be ok with it. and there is other x girlfriends i loved, and i can see them with other guys some which are married now, and it doesn't bother me, but it didn't bother me early on either..

    i just want you to know you arent the only one going through it bro, keep praying and sticking it out i really hope she gets back with you, event to give me hope man..i miss her so much its retarded, goodluck bro keep me posted

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    Default Re: Opinions and experiences men will return after a breakup

    You's both will be fine remember that life goes on! Just start doing more of your own stuff rather than go looking for women. I think going for women helps!

    I have not seen or heard from my ex since her last blanking episode lol and I like it that way Untill the day she tells me she has made a mistake which I doubt very much. I will continue to live my life to its full potential and take every opportunity it gives me.

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    Default Re: Opinions and experiences men will return after a breakup

    My ex just uploaded a picture of her and a friend on fb but she also tagged the guy taking the picture. He happens to be a person that I think is a tool, and she knows that I think that. Huh thats weird. Maybe I am wrong, but I think she is trying to get a reaction out of me. This is the kinda stuff I like to see. I should really just stop looking at her profile but I enjoy seeing stuff like that because it shows she may not be as indifferent towards me as I thought.


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