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    Default Re: Opinions and experiences men will return after a breakup

    So last night was a bad night. I barely got any sleep and had a lot to do today. Pretty much went through the entire day tired as all hell. I continued to stay busy but I was like a zombie. I left my phone downstairs for a couple hours and when I come back guess who had contacted me? It was my ex. Keep in mind this is the first time she has gone out of her way to contact me since I told her I needed space, hence 2 months. She reminded me of a show that was coming on tonight that I liked.

    All I said was "Thanks, I will check it out". And that was it. I know this doesn't mean anything, but wow it helped me calm down. I am now at the point where I don't expect to see her come up on my phone and when I saw the text today it surprised the hell out of me. I really shouldn't make much of it. It was just one of only a few good signs I have seen in the last two months.

    I know I am in a good place which ever way this goes. I am not going to lie, I still have hope. Some people say it is your worst enemy but I don't care. I have come a long way to the point I am at now and haven't given in to anything. I have built my confidence back up to where I feel I can approach any girl in a bar and have success. I am going to stay the course and continue living how I have been. Whatever happens I know I will be fine, just feels good to see this no contact pay off a bit.

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    Default Re: Opinions and experiences men will return after a breakup

    thats good news saund.. im at the same place, you dont expect to hear from it, and when you do, its like bam what a suprise.. my ex called me tonight too at night, havent felt that in a long time..made me know she was thinking about me..and you should take some comfort in knowing your x is thinking about you.. good luck , stay the course,

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    Default Re: Opinions and experiences men will return after a breakup

    Well in about 1 hour I will be seeing my ex for the first time in almost 2 months. I have come a long way since then and I feel that I am in a good spot for this. We are having coffee at a nearby coffee shop. I don't expect much, but I do think it will at least be a fun time. I am prepared for pretty much anything she will say. I am afraid she is going to ask me to ride down to the wedding together, in which I will either dance around the answer or have to tell her its not a good idea. I don't think it would be good to ride together, it seems to friendy for me.

    I am going to make sure to cut it short if we are having a good time so I can keep her wanting more. I just need to relax and stop thinking about what I am going to say. I know if I am myself it will be fine.

    This is probably pretty boring to read. For me this is more of a way to vent then for advice at this point. Wish me luck.

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    Default Re: Opinions and experiences men will return after a breakup

    goodluck bro, im rooting for you, at least you guys get to see your exes.. im like too stuck to even ask mine to hang out! lol :/ goodluck

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    Default Re: Opinions and experiences men will return after a breakup

    Well the coffee (date) went as I expected. We made each other laugh, caught up a little bit, and didn't mention anything about the relationship. She looked great, wanted to tell her that but thought against it. It went about 30 mins when I decided to end it. She didn't mention anything about any other guy, which I think is good.

    I will continue to not contact her as I will expect her to contact me before this wedding about something random like she did a couple of days ago. We will be starting school together soon, so I will probably be seeing her around.

    I don't know what will come of this wedding but I will go into it not having any expectations. Still debating on whether to make her jealous with another girl. She has been playing that card on me on facebook and I refuse to react. Maybe it's my turn. I would rather not play games, but if she is going to play, then may the best win.

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    Default Re: Opinions and experiences men will return after a breakup

    nice saund, i bet she looked good! they always look better after the fact.. i can remember saying to myself while in the relationship, man she's not as pretty as i thought, then after words once you dont have them, they get gorgeous again in your mind, lol.. so lame of a process.

    glad you got to see her, and good job on ending it, she should want more and be contacting you.. i was in the situation you are in and had momentum but it kind of has fizzled out for some reason.. lol you should do the jealousy thing, just dont make it too obvious. good luck bro!!

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    Default Re: Opinions and experiences men will return after a breakup

    I don't know man. She looked good, but I look at pictures from the past when she was more natural and I would take that girl over the one now any day. She wears too much make up and tries to act like these new friends she has made. She isn't being herself right now, or maybe she just changed. She definitely put herself on a pedestal thinking she can get better than me though. I have regained my confidence and know I can offer her more than any of the orbiters. She's not a 10 by any means, but she is a "10" to me if you know what I am saying. I can get a 10 if I wanted to. And I probably will just to show her whats up.

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    Default Re: Opinions and experiences men will return after a breakup

    i know exactly what you mean about the 10 to me statement.. my ex is a solid 8.. but to me yeah, she's a 10, why? because I know every inch of her and I just love her.. orbiters are always a freaking joke man, just be prepared for her to get with one of them and when that ends she might realize what she had with you..

    i haven't had to go through my ex with another guy yet, but i know that day is going to come... sucks to think about

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    Default Re: Opinions and experiences men will return after a breakup

    I went out to a club last night with a few buddies, and you would never guess who was there. My ex. My friend saw her first. There she was, all caked up with make-up and talking to a friend. I knew she saw me at that point as well.

    About 30 mins later I see her grinding with some tool. So I just got out of the area cuz I didn't really feel like seeing that. So I got my game face on and hit up the dance floor myself.

    About 1 hour later I was trying to find my buddies when she approached me. We chatted for a bit and then she brings up how my friend gave her a weird look. So I said "ok I don't know what that means". She basically gave me a look saying "you know what I mean", she holds out her pinky finger and wants me to promise her that I am over her". And I do it without hesitation. I didn't have any idea what to make of it. She also commented how I was wearing a V-neck tee shirt. She teased me by asking if she wanted the one I gave to her awhile back cuz I didn't like it. I just said you can throw it away if you want.

    So I dance with a few girls and actually give one my number, and I have little attention on my ex at this point. I am actually excited to hang out with this girl I gave the number too. I did see my ex drag one of her guy friends on the dance floor to try and grind with him but he didn't seem too excited about it, I loved it. It seemed like she was trying to make me jealous. My buddy said he saw her looking over at what I was doing a few times and I caught her once lookin too. I basically ignored her the rest of the night and ended up having a pretty good time.

    What I took from this is that actions speak louder than words. I honestly take everything she says as a grain of salt. Why the hell would she care if I am over her or not anyway? There is nothing that I am doing that indicates I'm not over her. I think she is going to start understanding that I'm not here for whenever she wants me. I'm going to stick to no contact for now.


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