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    titan101 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default dying, in need of immediate game plan for getting back ex with bf

    okay.... so. where to start ?


    i have this ex of mine. i've known her for about a year or more maybe. so yea, we have quite a history. a few months ago after she broke up with her bf at the time we started slowly "messing around " with eachother again, so to speak. as in we'd make out pretty much everytime we saw eachother lol.

    now, i never bothered to ask her out since at the time i figured i didn't wanna " push the issue ", and then we started talking/ hanging out less and less, till i found out she got a bf . i was like " wtf ? " it was obvious that i liked her for a while.

    she then explained that she thought i didn't anymore . at the time we started foollng around again she told my friend that she wanted me to ask her back out , yet i never did. so she .... get this .... didn't wanna push the issue. how ironic. she then said it'd feel weird for a girl to ask a guy out, she really wanted me back, blah blah blah.

    so i broke down and told her i loved her.


    supposedly she loved me too.

    she dropped so many hints, yet i couldn't read them. either that or i'd dismiss them. she even mouthed the words " i love you " to me and then kissed me on the lips one time before she had to go and do something really quick.

    i felt like a fool. ever since then i couldn't stop thinking about her, wanting her back , trying to figure out how to do it , etc. i also tried taking a break from talking to her . that didn't work out , seeing as how i randomly ran into her just this weekend and spent the whole night/ half the next day with her along with my friends. which went amazingly well but not as much as i wish it did.

    i figured maybe saying my feelings in person would help, but well.... i was shall we say.... under the influence of a certain herbal substance, so i couldn't really say anything lol. all that really came out was me hugging her for a really long time .

    it just kinda got me sad though, because i didn't even get to cuddle with her that whole night. and she still has a bf, who lives in TEXAS, FARRRRR AWAYYY, yet i'm still not with her . and i over heard her talking to him on the phone. atleast i think it was him. i overheard words like " i love you " ..... maybe the "stuff " in me was making me paranoid.....

    i just talked to her tonight , and i was for some reason alot sweeter than i usually am, and i also told her i need to see her very soon and tell her how i felt that night because i'm leaving to go to delaware soon.

    so yea.... thoughts ? this has been on my mind for quiiiiite some time now.

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    pwonager is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: dying, in need of immediate game plan for getting back ex with bf

    Read Mystery Method. Realize there's millions of women who are as good as her or better. Get rid of the "I love you" Oneitis syndrome...

    If you want something with her, stop thinking in terms of the dating social programming that society has led you to believe.

    If she has a boyfriend, play it cool, play it casual. Don't act needy or clingy..

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    titan101 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: dying, in need of immediate game plan for getting back ex with bf

    i was kinda hoping for a non-robotic and less typical response but thanks anyways. lol

    i agree with the last part though.

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    titan101 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: dying, in need of immediate game plan for getting back ex with bf

    it seems like dangerous business, but should i maybe use a boyfriend destroyer on her or something ?


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