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  1. #11
    Saund128 is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Ex of 2-1/2 years broke it off 1 month ago

    Don't be "nice". Remember she dumped you. Keep your self respect and get some space from her. You need to get over her and let her go until you can even think about reconciling. You will try and talk yourself out of no contact but you have to be strong. I am now to the point (2.5 months later) where my ex and I are talking again and its from her end. Its amazing what time can do. We are friends and are happy where its at. Who knows what will happen but I am content with what it is now.

    Stay strong man.

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    Default Re: Ex of 2-1/2 years broke it off 1 month ago

    Hey Saund I hear you buddy, 2 months is nothing in the grand scheme of things. Her mom messaged me this morning funny enough and thanked me for the flowers, said that was very thoughtful and hoped I was doing well. That was all I was hoping to accomplish. I am still a gentlemen and it was my intention by sending her parents the flowers that I was unaffected by the situation (wasn't bitter). I am in a good place now, dating other women currently and having a fun summer with my buddies :P. How are you doing?

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    Default Re: Ex of 2-1/2 years broke it off 1 month ago

    I'm just saying. I am assuming your intentions are to get her back and when you send her mom flowers it's obvious what your trying to do. I thought about talking to my ex's family and friends but I knew it wasn't a good idea. If I see her friends anywhere I just say hi and ask them how they are doing. I never bring up the relationship or anything.

    It's been the hardest couple months of my life, but I am starting to see some results. I still have no idea what she is thinking but from her actions its looking promising.

    I am doing good. I've done this whole no contact thing, work out regularly, updated my wardrobe, got a better car and have met girls and went on a few dates. I am in a good spot right now. I still think about her but my emotions are under control now. We will see what happens

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    Default Re: Ex of 2-1/2 years broke it off 1 month ago

    How long did you go Saund before she reached out though? I did no contact for nearly a month before this, and again, if things don't work out with us I am completely fine with it at this point. But you are right, there will be no more effort on my part to reach out.

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    Default Re: Ex of 2-1/2 years broke it off 1 month ago

    It wasn't so much her contacting me. She kept texting me after the breakup so I had to tell her that I needed space. So I had control of the contact.

    About a month and a half later I started some small talk on our email. I ended the convo on my terms. A week later I called her and asked if she wanted to get coffee to clear the air before we had to go to this wedding.

    We are also in the same program at school too. The wedding was really fun, she enjoyed my company. A couple a days ago she text me about some mail she received for me. We started to chat and I eventually asked her if she wanted to go to a bar with friends.

    We had a good time but there has been no contact since. I still don't know if she is interested in trying again. I also don't know if she is seeing this other guy or not. I need to let it play out a bit. I will probably initiate contact next. I just don't know when.

    The key is getting control. You just have to figure out how to do that or even if you can do it.

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    Default Re: Ex of 2-1/2 years broke it off 1 month ago

    Ok UPDATE: After just 4-5 days of blocking me off facebook and everything else, she unblocked all our modes of communication and posted a new photo of her and a boy as her pic :P. Looks like I got my foot slightly back in the door haha. I'll keep posted if and when she reaches out. Got a date tomorrow with a girl that I'm excited to meet.

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    Default Re: Ex of 2-1/2 years broke it off 1 month ago

    Eeeeh, i'm reading all this. but lets pray it all goes well. girls in those ages,are like that.reason i like older women.they have seen it all.

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    Default Re: Ex of 2-1/2 years broke it off 1 month ago

    Yeah Kap, she is still listed as single and the kid lives 3-1/2 hours away I am not worried about it anymore, just more games. I went on a date with some older women and you can see the maturity change, the 20s are a rough age for girls lol

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    Default Re: Ex of 2-1/2 years broke it off 1 month ago

    Younger 20 year olds are a waste of time. They are insecure and can't be happy with themselves. I just wasted 2.5 months trying to get my ex back and she is now with the guy that she left me for. She dragged me along until we became friends again and then goes to him. Someone that can't be happy alone will not be happy in a relationship. I thought it was my fault why we broke up but she just demanded more and more attention and was never happy. I think she wanted to break up with me for sometime but decided to continue to move in together. Right when she saw her escape plan, another dude, then she left. She is a coward for that and it took me until now to realize it.

    I want to defriend her on facebook so bad, again. But I don't want to give her the satisfaction that it is effecting me. These girls are a waste of time. It's time for me to better myself and be happy with being alone for awhile. I don't need a girl as a crutch. I am too young to settle for some insecure brat.

    Don't waste anymore time than you already have. We are better than these losers.

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    Default Re: Ex of 2-1/2 years broke it off 1 month ago

    UPDATE:

    So this past week I went to the wedding we were suppose to both go to, right before the day of the wedding she changes her facebook status to in a relationship with this guy haha. Anyways, she is now in a relationship with this guy she met 4 weeks ago and lives 3-1/2 hours away from her... has disaster written all over it.

    I've moved forward and on, I'm in a good place. If for some reason she reaches out in the new coming months or something happens I will keep you posted. This is strictly reference material for others and for myself to document, it's been a wild 2 months but I've learned a lot in the process.


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