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    Default Re: Want my ex back, been with her 4 months

    To be honest i dont think she would do anything with me around her, well i hope not anyway, i would just do it right back lol, shes a very pretty girl and does get too much attention for my liking, cant go one day without someone trying it or following her. Ill just have to win her back some way, to be honest i dont know how i got her in the first place, she was the one who made the move on me lol.

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    Default Re: Want my ex back, been with her 4 months

    Quote Originally Posted by Dan_lock View Post
    Hi, thanks for your reply I understand what your saying, so should I just ignore her if she texts me and tell her i need space or reply in a few hours. Thanks
    Don't ignore her like an immature child. Do not initiate contact with her. If she initiates herself, be short and concise.. if however, she initiates some emotional talk about 'why are you ignoring me lately' or some stuff like that tell her you want your space. Be genuine about it. You really do need that space.

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    Default Re: Want my ex back, been with her 4 months

    Aha fair enough :L well good luck buddy hope it goes well for ya, if your ever in Lincoln hit me up, would love to sarge with someone else who's into this, none of my mates are unfortunately lol

    Linking x

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    Default Re: Want my ex back, been with her 4 months

    Quote Originally Posted by 1000steps View Post
    Don't ignore her like an immature child. Do not initiate contact with her. If she initiates herself, be short and concise.. if however, she initiates some emotional talk about 'why are you ignoring me lately' or some stuff like that tell her you want your space. Be genuine about it. You really do need that space.
    Yeah okay thanks ill keep it short, im going away for 7 days anyway so should take my mind off her. Just last night she was telling me shes all bottled up and wants to cry, so i said im there for her if she needs me ... guess i shouldnt have said that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by linking View Post
    Aha fair enough :L well good luck buddy hope it goes well for ya, if your ever in Lincoln hit me up, would love to sarge with someone else who's into this, none of my mates are unfortunately lol

    Linking x
    Thanks mate, same to you and ill certainly get in touch if im anywhere in lincoln

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    Default Re: Want my ex back, been with her 4 months

    No you shouldn't have said it. You shouldn't think it. You're not her mother or her therapist. I know you love her but it's not your job.

    It's kind of like a father punishing his little boy or girl. It breaks his heart to see him/her in pain but he knows it's for his/her good so he sticks to his role as the father.

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    Default Re: Want my ex back, been with her 4 months

    Right now i think she needs me close in her life, as we speak shes just messaged me saying
    HER :hey babe, you ok x,
    ME : Hi babe, im ok you x
    HER : im ok thanks x
    HER : what you doing?
    ME : just packing, you?
    Her : aww your going tomorrow
    Me : yeh lol

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    Default Re: Want my ex back, been with her 4 months

    Well this has friend-zone written all over it if you ask me. But good luck

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    Default Re: Want my ex back, been with her 4 months

    Im want to leave her a message tomorrow that will get her thinking about me while im away, any ideas on what to say?

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    Default Re: Want my ex back, been with her 4 months

    Ok, so I got practically the same thing from my ex, the whole I miss you, your like my best friend etc, etc. I told her that I couldn't be her best friend and not her boyfriend, it just wouldn't work. I can't tell you whether it worked or not because I'm still in no contact, only been 2 weeks though, so the jury is still out so to speak...........take what you like from that but that's what I done. Sorry I can't give you anything more definite :/

    Linking x


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