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    sivhead1990 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default help me get out of lets just be friends

    I had been introduced to a girl through a friend, we had an instant spark... we have so much in common its crazy and we were all over each other.

    She spent the night in my bed, but nothing happened because she didnt want it to happen so early. i didnt push it because i wanted to move past to a relationship possibly...
    We'd been texting the week up to meeting and then the week after meeting until she comes over again for the night. we dont go past 1st base, but we're really lovely dovey and both nights spend the night in each others arms and i did little tests like moving back and she'd move in closer.

    Then the next day, i miss read her signs. I was quite touchy feely as we walked about town. she hated this and immediately rolled off by the end of the day.

    I managed to find out from the mutual friend what was wrong and i brought it up as if i shared the same problems as her and we agreed to be friends.

    This girl is amazing, she even said to me she's never met someone with that much in common and who struck a chord with her like that.

    I really want to give it another try, everything looked like we'd be together, she had even told her parents about me. but this is a bad situation.

    I really need help on this, where should i go from here?

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    Mr.Bojangles is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: help me get out of lets just be friends

    Have you agreed to be friends? If so may have landed yourself in the friendzone there, but its not impossible to get out.

    I think you need to work on building attraction and less 'being her friend' as that's a one way ticket to friendzone.

    Phrases like

    "I was thinking about you today" along those lines

    and once she's warmed up a bit you need to arrange to meet her and just say something like "it's cool to take things slow" get her relaxed and open to the idea as seeing you as bf material.


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