Long story short, my girl left me about 2 months ago. We were together for 2 years, lived together for most of it. Until the last 2 months or so everything was great. Basically I lost my way and became extremely lazy and negligent...so she left.
After a month of absolute NC I decided I had made enough positive changes in my life to reach out to her. I told her I didn't blame her for leaving and would like talk to her about it. To my surprise she responded to my text almost immediately and asked if we could meet that night. Unfortunately I couldn't as I had started my new job that week and really needed sleep, she said she understood.
Said meeting has not happened yet and that was about a month ago. At first she seemed eager to tell me all the stuff I did wrong. I took the beating and agreed with most of what she said, because most of it is true. After a few days of initial contact she seemed less interested in talking. I would either get one word responses, be outright ignored, sometimes she would respond with outright hostility.
I could see that the situation was deteriorating, so I backed off. I didn't contact her for a week, and I didn't hear from her. I finally sent another text, and at first I got a few one word responses spaced very far apart. I thought nothing had changed. Then out of the blue she sends me a text about something that happened to her at work. I didn't answer and she sent another a few hours later. Since then the quantity of communication has increased every day. Now, I usually hear from her before 9 AM if I haven't said anything. If I drop a conversation for a few hours she always attempts to start it back up.
But the only thing that has increased is the quantity, not the quality. I want to venture into talking about the past and more importantly, the future. I don't want to seem pushy though, right now I'm just rolling with it.