mate, a couple of weeks ago i thought that all i wanted was my ex back, but after discovering this place and reading the game and stuff, i started getting back out there and hitting on other girls, and y'no what if my ex came crawling back to me now i probs wouldnt take her back. get out there and have some fun with other women and you will probably find that you aint so bothered about this girl anymore good luck :P
ouch well i guess we can all let by gones be by gones if she comes back fine if not life goes on for me it may take time to get over it. i am already talking to other girls now so we will see how that works out in the near futre. as at now i only want her i will be lying to myself if i say that i am not. i feel that its external influences from her friends that is making her make this decision.
LTR's alot of us get lazey with our game, we stop being challenging and our game falls apart
Just give it time. Get to the point when you are indifferent to how she would react towards you. But make sure you are to that point before trying to contact her again. After this time you probably won't even want her back. You want what you can't have, and right now you can't have her. Turn the tables on her. I am almost to the point when my ex will finally realize that I am doing fine without her. I think she is in denial that I am over her and it's starting to show.
Work on yourself, and try to get your mind off her. Yes I know, it is easier said than done. I find myself trying to figure out what my ex has been up to but it gets less and less everyday.
Ran into my ex on the bus last night on the bus we made eye contact. I moved my groceries offerd her a seat but smiled and didn't take it.funny I found these chocolates she loved at the store and got them for me. I called her when I got home and she sounded great I told gave her my new contact asked her how she has been I was quite positive during the conversation. Miss my dear.
its ok, my gf just left me, and i miss her too, but we can't let it take us out of our game, here is a link to a good motivational poem that cheered me up a bit
i hope you are doing better than i am right now
Have meaningless sex with random strangers........... .helped me lol x