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    Exclamation advice help thoughts please anyone?

    My ex broke up with me three weeks ago.after 11 months a stupid fight we got into and other occasions. she says she doesnt love me anymore and if she did she wouldnt care about the fighting.i truely love her and i believe she did too at some point. she got really cold breaking up with me on skype she once made contact saying we need to talk and when i called her back she asked for her stuff. tonight she sent me a skype message apologizing for the mean stuff she said i apologized too. she made a statement about the relationship[12:10:50 AM] : I thought we'd turn out differently
    [12:11:03 AM] i: But obviously it's not what I thought .i tried reminding her of our early days which were great in the relationship and told her about the progress ive made so far all she said was now you are all set up for the next person. i know she has some feelings left. how can i get her back what can i say and do she misses me and i miss her too i am her first boyfriend. took her v card on my birthday last october

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    Default Re: advice help thoughts please anyone?

    i'll tell you what you can do to get her back, MOVE ON!!!! go nc and start gaming other wemon,show her you don't need her to live your life, if she still likes you then she'll chase you, if she doesn't, there are so many other more attractive girls out there for you to have sex with. besides you probably don't really want her back, you just want the comfort of being in a stable relationship. find it in another woman

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    Well i began the whole Nc and she initiated contact with me on skype apologising and telling me she thought we would turn out differently but we didnt and she misses me.. my last words to her was how silly can anyone be to trust anyone but God with their heart. Bt i guess il just block her off my skype for now.

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    Default Re: advice help thoughts please anyone?

    dont block her off skype mate, leave it there, let her see that you are just not bothered about talking to her, if you block her it will be obvious that you are really bothered about it and thats not what you want. You need to move on and make sure she knows you are doing so, then she will chase you if she still wants it. :P

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    Default Re: advice help thoughts please anyone?

    Yep he's right. It may be hard advice to hear right now, but moving on is your best option. Go no contact and show her that you are a catch by hanging out with other women. That is really the only dignified way to go about it. You could beg and plead and maybe she will come back, but it's not going to be a long lasting relationship.

    I'm back into the person I was before we dated and it's been over 2 months now. I am starting to see signs of regret from her. She will not find a better guy for her than me. I am that confident. And now she is losing me and she is starting to realize that. It will be interesting what happens next.

    Trust in the advice you get from here because it works.

    Good luck.

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    Default Re: advice help thoughts please anyone?

    Hey thanks guys i really appreciate your help on here.. so what do i do if she initiates contact again like she did yesterday? i also have to get her stuff to her do i mail it to her house? or return it in person and just leave...

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    Default Re: advice help thoughts please anyone?

    if she initiates contact then talk to her, but dont do the whole 'i want you back, i miss you, i need you etc' just be polite and talk to her normally, just no lovey dovey AFC shit as for her stuff personally id say, 'i'll be in the house at........you can come and collect your stuff then' dont be rude about it but thers no need for you to be her delivery service, if she wants it she should fetch it...thats my take on it anyways :P

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    Default Re: advice help thoughts please anyone?

    yeah i think this forum is really helpful in making the right decisions. i mean this girl has been so rude to me after during and after the break up looking for any reason to be mean. it amazes me that any woman coud treat her first bf like that. mayb she is not even worth my time and exclusive commitment. i hope she gets cheated on. I can do better than that.

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    Default Re: advice help thoughts please anyone?

    Quote Originally Posted by hughton View Post
    i hope she gets cheated on.
    You don't need this negative thought process. It's petty and feeds your ego. Let go of such nonsense.

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    Default Re: advice help thoughts please anyone?

    yeah i know but i simply want her back thats all and i am determined but i dont want to force it.


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