Hi guys I'm going to try and be as clear as possible through this story. So I met this girl and she was absolutely breathtaking hottest girl i've ever been with by far.
reasons for intial attraction in me: confidence, leadership qualities, physique, college athlete, ambitious, hard working, caring but not a doormat or a push over, intelligent
these were the initial reasons for attraction that got us together and dating in the first place. One night during some dark times in my life the two of us got into a huge argument that ended in both of us crying and feeling terribly and unfortunately enough I dropped the L word (forgive me i was still blind to the world of proper game just a lost AFC)
from that day forth she would find reasons left and right to start fights and I would basically just be a push over and agree with her because i was afraid she would leave me it turned into a bully-victim relationship with her being the bully. She then dumped me 3 days before going to florida to "hangout" with her ex boyfriend. I proceeded to try and continue contact before stumbling upon this forum, 1 thing I did do correctly prior to learning anything was show no emotion and seem indifferent.
So now as for where i am now. I initiated no contact. only speaking to her when she went out of her way to speak to me. 2 times now since that she has hit me up randomly in the middle of the night to speak. one time I was at a party and simply ignored it. and last night she hit me up i answered but was at the bar. she heard the girls i was with in the background and proceeded to continuously call me "party boy" and refused to tell me what she had actually called for. she texted me later to say that she feels old and what not (she's graduated and 1 year older than me) She kinda convinced me in a round about way to invite her to a bbq i'm hosting this weekend and i asked her if she was still coming and she didnt answer. moments after our conversation last night had ended. she decided to go and change her profile pic and cover photo on facebook to some modeling pictures she did a few weeks ago. to garner some attention. she even put her friend up to comment on the picture like 5-6 times assumably to raise her value a bit. now she hasnt hit me back up all day and I need to decide what the next step is. I have established that I can live without her too her and she has shown some level of interest even if its only curiousity and a tad bit of jealousy. This seems to be the point many puas are stuck at what happens after you shake a response into you're ex?! please help any advice is greatly appreciated and sorry for the long post thanks